NOTES FROM THE ZOOKEEPER

The Ogre is Awesome

2011-05-26T10:50:00.002-04:00

Ogre is 17, he is finishing up his Junior year in high school. He is a teenager. Drives me crazy- and is wonderful all in the same minute.
Today his school had their awards ceremony. His school is very small- 20 kids in the class of 2011- and not many more in the class of 2012. He has gone there since he left grade school- also a very small school- a charter school where the Moose goes now- and the Goose will be next year.

I got a call on Tuesday- to tell me that the Ogre would be getting an award at the program. I was able to take the day off and go.
He is such an awesome kid! He received the Diligence Award for the Junior Class. The award is voted on by the staff/faculty of the school for a member of each class. It is given to the student who shows diligence in his work - school work and work in the community.
He also received an award for his geography class- for Most Improved.

I am so very proud of the Ogre!!!!

May Flowers and Showers

2011-05-24T22:32:00.008-04:00

Cool stuff around Down Town Disney

The Ogre made his stage debut- in "Dead Men Don't Need Dress Rehearsels" He was awesome!

It's been busy- getting ready for the end of the year- and people being sick. We are getting through it all.
Ogre had prom - no date- went with friends. Had a great time- I am really glad that he went and had fun. He is a junior this year- and it's amazing to see how grown up he looks- and occasionally acts.
Mother's Day weekend we had big plans- and they all went down the drain. My BFF- who is also my niece's mother had some pretty big things going on. I knew she would need a shoulder so- I took a day off from work- arranged things so I was free- and promptly got sick. Spent hours sleeping on her couch, in my car- and in my bed. Thought the stress and nerves had got to me- couldn't imagine since my main symptoms were fatigue and malaise. So Friday middle of the night - the Moose starts crying that her throat hurts and she has fever- I'm guessing a doctor's visit is in order for us on Saturday. Jim took the Goose out to Animal Kingdom- and I took the Moose to the doctor. Cynthia (nurse practitioner) promptly diagnosed Moose and Mommy with strep. So we spent all of Saturday and part of Sunday in bed.

Mother's Day- we went to my Mom's and started painting her door- and helped her unload all her loot from the garage sales in Atlanta. She brought back some great stuff- we had dinner with her- and started her present. Painting her front door and hanging shutters.

My Mom and I went to the Green Auction--- it is a great fund raising event- that her friends Sally and Millie do every year at St. Patrick's day- but due to the miserable month that March was- they put it off until May. The way it works- is you buy a green gift, wrap it in green paper, and bring a snack to share. After the eating, drinking and making merry- the auction begins. We bid on the wrapped packages. The bidding can get intense. We do put a starting bid on each package- what you think your gift should start at. This year I had a tray, pitcher, and goblets- with a bottle of rum and mojito mix and a beautiful green oil lamp. My box went for about $40- which wasn't bad- I only had about $20 in it - because of some great sales.
In total we raised about $800 that night- and the money was donated to a children's organization.

We did make a trip to Hollywood Studios- the Moose and Goose are big enough to go on some of the bigger rides and we did Tower of Terror this last trip. Moose went twice- Goose once. They had a blast- and the thrill was there. We also had to watch Beauty and the Beast, Ariel and Disney Jr. We never made it past the Great Movie Ride. It was a great day!

Celebrated Hale-Bugs birthday- she is now 17. Can't believe it. Hard enough to think that Ogre is 17- but my niece also.
We celebrated with cake and ice cream- Grandma got her a great Coach bag, and her favorite Aunt Tamara came through with a rockin bathing suit and beach bag.

Last weekend we planned on a trip to Star Wars weekends at Hollywood Studios- but when I got home from dropping the Moose off at Grandma's for her sleepover- the Goose had a fever - and a nasty cough- so off we went to the doctor- (see a theme) - and she was diagnosed with pneumonia. She is now on antibiotics, steroids, and nebulizer treatments. She is going to miss the entire week of school this week- until the fever breaks, the cough lets up and she is better. She graduates from pre- K next Friday but she isn't to sad about missing school this week- she gets up in the morning- and says " I get to stay home from school today?"

This week will finish up Moose's kindergarten year. The girl is an avid reader- does great at writing, reading, and spelling. She hasn't quit singing since before she was talking clearly.
This summer Moose is going to work on improving those A+++++ reading skills and memorizing some addition and subtraction facts. Goose is going to start rockin the reading - we downloaded an app for that- she is great at the math.

Our prayers are with the families in Alabama, Joplin and Oklahoma that have been devastated by the tornadoes. I can't imagine what they are going through.

Happy Easter

2011-04-24T21:58:00.005-04:00

Happy Easter!

Today was a great day! The Easter Bunny delivered baskets late last night- and it's a good thing she did- because the Moose and Goose were up early. We don't have a lot of candy here- but the Easter Bunny is smart and knew the girls would need new bathing suits so those were in their baskets- the Easter Bunny also scored big on WebKinz pets- packages of two pets and one mini pet with clothes- $4. 97 at Costco. What little candy they did get- Grandma Bunny provided. The Ogre's basket had a gift card for Game Stop- and a variety of Axe products (thanks to coupons and sales).

I had to make a few side dishes for Aunt Eddie's - pasta salad, Mac & Cheese and a cake. Also had to get the girls dressed - and out the door. We stopped at Grandma's to drop off her Easter Basket and then off to see Great Grandma.

We met Grandma over at Aunt Eddie's and the afternoon was amazing.

Late lunch on the back porch- with a nice breeze and fans -- it was good food with great friends.

Uncle Kirk took the girls out on the boat around the lake. The girls are were loving the boat ride. They like the wind blowing through their pig tails.

They played in the water with Caidi, Christopher, Grace and Andrew. I thought for sure they would drop off - but they kept on.

We had an Easter Egg hunt- and 5 kids went through 200 eggs. After checking out the loot- Moose sweet talked her cousin Taylor to swing them on the swing out in the back yard- after all of that- Moose finally decided that she might be hungry. Goose never decided that- until she got home and I was tucking her into bed- we had to have a Mac/Cheese bedtime snack.

This was the first holiday without my Dad- and it was different- I kept expecting him to walk out to the dock- or to find him watching TV in the house. Not really expecting- but just the thought. It was not as hard as I thought it would be- but I was more aware of it than I thought I would be. Just trying to process the thoughts.

My Mom and I ran a few errands yesterday- and we talked about all kinds of things- one of the things I asked her was if she had changed the business phone voicemail message- she hasn't yet- and I'm glad. No- I haven't yet become the weird girl who calls her father's cell phone just to hear his voice- but it's coming.

I can't believe how big my girls have gotten- Moose has been home 5 years (next month) and Goose - 3 years (Last January). They are amazing!

2011-04-17T21:53:00.002-04:00

They look scared

Visit with Mulan(well her 3rd cousin from Jersey)

Mo'Rockin

These pics are from a couple of week ago. It was beautiful this weekend- but our passes are blacked out for two weeks. My Mom and I took the girls to EPCOT last weekend to take advantage for the beautiful weather - and have some downtime.

This weekend I hosted a coupon class. I love shopping- garage sales, thrift stores, Macy Sales- and couponing is like garage sales with a list. I am saving so much money- and I have things that I buy just to donate. It is great. I have cut my grocery bills at least in half- and most likely more. It was great fun- and now I want to teach the classes.

Today we went to my Mom's to fix the pressure washer - and while Jim was doing that my Mom and I went to Walgreen's, Target, and Winn Dixie. Crossed a few things off my list- and I will be able to do the rest of my shopping this week.

We had dinner at my Mom's- Sunday dinners was something we had started in January- dinner at my house on Sundays with my parents, my niece and Jennifer. It was nice- and something I am so glad that we did.

This week promises to be busy- on Mondays we are going to FPU - Financial Peace University. Dave Ramsey is a financial genius- who teaches common sense(not so common anymore) and we decided to take the class and get back on the road to financial freedom. I am down to 4 math classes and I have some homework to do before my test on Thursday. Only two more classes after that.

Now off to finish laundry - so the Zoo can have clean uniforms for school:-)

A Sad Month March was

2011-04-16T21:54:00.003-04:00

It's been such a long time since I posted- and now you get two in one night.

At the end of February I was very sick- bronchitis or pneumonia - lots of Rocephin shots and oral antibiotics. It was a rough week.

On February 28th- my Daddy went into the hospital and was very sick. He has had COPD for years and pneumonia is hard for him. On March 1st- my Mom called me to tell me that the doctors had told her that it was time to talk about Hospice. It is always a hard talk to have with patients and/or their families- and I am thankful that my Dad's doctors took the time to address it with her. Some doctors don't- and those families miss so much.

We moved my Daddy to hospice. Hospice of the Comforter. I had worked for hospice- that one and several others- in the past and while I *knew* how important and how wonderful the nurses/staff were- it's not like *knowing* because they are so important and wonderful to you.

Daddy died on March 4th. He was surrounded by his family and friends. Many of the most important people in his life had the opportunity to say good- bye and share stories with the family. He was able to see his grandchildren, he was able to see his brothers and sisters. He was not able to talk to us- but he was able to understand what we were saying. It was a true blessing. When the girls climbed up on the bed and kissed his cheek and said good bye- and I love you Poppy- he smiled.

This has been so hard- hard to wake up some days knowing he won't ever call me "little girl" again. I won't get to hear his political views (which mine are so like) and no being able to call him for advice- on anything. I know that he is in a good place- and I know that he is not suffering- but I miss him.

Don't take your family and friends for granted- you just never know. I know my Dad knew I loved him, and I have no doubt that he loved me- we had a great relationship.

My Dad was a great person- he was opinionated and stubborn- but he was lots of fun and for all his huff and puff- he was a softy inside. Most importantly he was loved! He will be missed forever.

Back at it

2011-04-16T21:30:00.003-04:00

I'm back- and I'd like to say I'm back for regular updates- but I don't want to make promises that I may not be able to keep. The girls and Ogre started school in August but so did I. I as taking an intro to Algebra class and a Humanities class. Throw into the mix- I started a new job- a dream job- and had to go to Kentucky for training for two weeks. Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas and then two new classes. I haven't had time to breath- much less sit down and write on the blog- many regrets at not doing that, but we move on.

Ogre- is doing great. He is finishing his Jr year in highschool. He was able to go to London for a week with the school drama club- and will have a starring role in the play next month. He focusing on a possible military career- but he has to wait until the current president is not - anymore.

Moose- is doing fantastic in school She has really blossomed. She is reading like a dream, we are working on her addition facts (hope she is better at math than I am) She is such a social butterfly. We are looking into acting/singing classes for her but will see what she shows the most interest in.

Goose- is doing well in VPK. She is not getting the education that Moose received at the old preschool- but Goose has more speech issues. She is also a little stubborn- so she won't always perform on que when the teacher asks her to do things.

Hope to get back on track with blogging. It's been a rough year- but there is so much to remember and so much to post. I am going to be a more faithful blogger.

First Day of School

2010-08-16T22:21:00.006-04:00

after school

Goose and Ms. D

at her desk

putting our stuff up

In front of our class

My big boy- and one of my little girls

blurry - but going to class

Got our back packs and lunch boxes

Getting ready for school

Not getting up

Up and ready to get going

Today was the first day of school- Moose is in Kindergarten, Goose started K4 and the Ogre is a Jr in high school.

Moose was out of bed the instant I said her name. She had a hard time going to sleep last night- so I didn't think she would be so quick to wake up this morning. She was up- and anxious to get her uniform on. Goose was not as fast to get up, but once I reminded her that she had to get ready for school- she was up and ready to go. The Ogre didn't want to get up until the last minute (6:30am) so that he only had enough time to take a shower, put on his uniform, and to brush his teeth.

We all piled into the mini van and took Moose to school first. They ask that you drop the kids off at school- not park and walk them in. They have teachers, safety patrol, and parents that volunteer to help get the kids out of cars and into class. If it had been just me- I would have parked and walked her in-(crazy rule breaker that I am) but Jim said we had to follow the rules.

We pulled into parent drop off/pick up and I unbuckled her car seat- Coach A opened the door and took her to her class. Her teacher is great and lets them into class when they get there.

Next was Ogre and Goose. We still had to get the Ogre's schedule - but they were handing them out in home room- so he said good buy and away we went.

Goose was so quiet as we walked across the parking lot. She held onto Jim's finger like it was her one link to life. She walked into her classroom- put her lunch box in her cubby and her back pack against the wall. We stayed while she looked around the classroom- and she held on tight. It took her a few minutes but she warmed up and kissed us good bye. I told her I would be back to pick her up- and she seemed OK- but so quiet and solemn.

I was able to go to the school and pick up my books for school- and ran a couple of errands. My van - still looking like it was at the beach got detailed and cleaned.

We headed back to Moose's school for parent pick up. We were there 20 minutes early and the line was already down the street. When it was finally our turn - she walked up to car- all smiles and happy. She was not fountain of information. She had a good time, she played out side- but she was not able to play on the monkey bars - she told me "I'm to petite for the monkey bars- I can't reach them) The first question she asked me was "where is Goose?" are we going to pick her up?" We did stop by the YMCA site- that she is going to be in after school at. She also told me that she did not take a nap today- it is about 3 miles from YMCA to Goose's school. She was asleep by the time we got there. We woke her up real quick.

When we got to Goose's class- she was still asleep. She was hard to wake up- but was so happy to see us. She hugged Moose and once she woke up- she was dancing around. She was happy to tell me that she saw the Ogre during her lunch (her teacher told us this as well- and told us she was all smiles as soon as she saw him). Mrs. B and Mrs. R both told us that Goose is just a big bunch of sweet sugar. (They have not see the spicy side) I am glad to know that they think she is as sweet as I do- They told me she follows directions well- and adjusted to their schedule quickly.

Ogre is a teenager. Doesn't hate his schedule- doesn't love it. It will do- he did go with me back to the college to trade out a couple of books.

The girls stripped down and had PJ's on- minutes after walking in the door (they are so my daughters) dinner, bath, teeth and bedtime. Moose was asleep about 5 minutes after being in bed. Goose - about as fast. (I have found that if they go to sleep in different rooms- then they go to sleep faster- move them after they are asleep)

They both seem very excited about going to school tomorrow- and I hope the excitement continues through the year. Ogre hasn't decided if he is going to change a couple of classes or not. He will make that decision on Wednesday.

It was a great day for all.

Beach Days

2010-08-15T21:57:00.004-04:00

My friend Jen and I decided that we would try to go to the beach every Sunday- we haven't gone every Sunday- but we have made it about every other weekend.

The one thing I have not done is bring my camera- at all. I have failed to photo document the summer beach days- I did bring it today and got a few good pictures of the kids.

We had a great time-the water was perfect, the waves were big enouogh to be fun, but not so big that the girls were afraid. We played in the sand, swam for a couple of hours and then headed home.

Shopping for lunches ended the day.

Moose was a little nervous- not about school she told me- but about Savannah, her Zannu bunny, and anything else she could think of that would keep her talking and not sleeping.

Goose was out in minutes.

Orientation Days

2010-08-13T13:48:00.004-04:00

Everyone starts back to school next week- so today everyone had orientation, meet the teacher, drop of the supplies day. I also had to sign Moose up for the YMCA's after school program make her a "Y" member.

Last night I went to kindergarten orientation- but today was meet the teacher. We got up early, got the school supplies together (figured out what was we did not have yet) and headed out. Ogre is doing some volunteer hours at his school and had to dropped off. Had to stop at Wal Mart to buy the last few supplies the Moose needed- and then we met Daddy at her school. Daddy was in the office signing up to take care of some of the 30 volunteer hours we commit to.

Moose was thrilled to go to her new classroom. Her teachers Ms T and Mrs N were in the room. They took her supplies and stashed her snacks away. Moose walked around the classroom, sat at a couple of different desks and looked through a couple of books. Goose was just as interested in the books. Ms. T gave the kids that were there paper and crayons and told had them write their names and color. Goose (who is not in her class) loved this- Moose quickly wrote her name and gave her back her piece of paper- and proceeded to walk around the room and talk to everyone who came in.

After meeting Moose's teachers- we went to see Grandma and run some errands and do some shopping. When the Ogre called to say he was done with his day at the school- Grandma and Poppy followed us up to pick Ogre up- and we all went to dinner. The food at Mi Tierra is fabulous. It is almost impossible to leave there not feeling stuffed.

It was then off to Ogre and Goose's school- orientation and meeting the VPK classroom teachers.

Goose and Moose walked right into the room and started playing. I can only hope it goes this well on Monday.

No schedules for the Jr's yet- so a quick trip up to the school tomorrow.

Haircuts for two

2010-08-08T09:23:00.011-04:00

When the Moose was little- her hair was super short- it took her a long time for her hair to We have never had their hair cut. Always wanted to go to Disney for first hair cuts- but as much as I love the Main Street Barber- they don't style and we were going to go for layers.

I went back through some old pictures and I can't believe how short their hair used to be. So this morning we headed to a local salon and we had first hair cuts. We kept the length- but trimmed the ends and added some layers to it. Moose thought this was the greatest. They took her back to the sink- washed her hair and talked about what kind of cut she would like.

She was so good and sat very still while her hair was cut. She did remind me a couple of times that it doesn't hurt to have your hair cut.

Goose was very good as well- she was not to sure about leaning back to have her hair washed. She wanted to know "I done now? " very frequently while Phil washed her hair. Phil is a saint- Goose is not one to sit still while so much is going on around her and she squirmed quite a bit. Goose has way more hair than the Moose- and her hair cut took a little longer.

Each of the girls lost about 2 inches in length- firt hair cut- and they had a few split ends. The layers frame their faces- and the back looks nice and healthy. They can wear it down- back with a headband or in pigtails- and I have it direct from pre-schooler Vogue- that bows are big this year. Moose and Goose are so far ahead of the curve on that.

The Ogre got a new phone yesterday. New to him- his was a little worse for wear and needed to be replaced. So Mommy got on Ebay and found him an LG Vu. It's just like mine- and I love the touch screen. He needed a phone case and a screen guard- and we went to the mall to get him one. He picked out a really neat phone case with a dragon on it- bright colors. The screen guard was a mirror finish. For a used phone it is in pristine condition.

The phone goody cart is right in front of the Build-A-Bear store. That is just about perfect placement. Daddy was looking for something to keep the girlies occupied while the Ogre picked out phone bling. We had our first Build-A-Bear experience.

Moose picked out a Floppy Eared Bunny. She picked out the "I love you" button to go inside, Goose picked out a Chocolate Teddy bear- and the "I love you" button as well. They had a heart ceremony- and Zannu the Bunny, and Bambi Bear were born.

Grandma said the bunny and bear needed clothing and- that they could not be naked. So we also have a red cheer leading outfit and Pj's for the bunny and bear. The girls were able to hit the magical $25 mark and got "free" messenger bags. It is such a racket. They are happy- and now Santa has an easy out for Christmas and the birthday thing just got easier. Clothing, closets, strollers, carriers, shoes, toys and more.

We finished the evening at Imperial Dynasty for dinner. Sushi makes everything right in the world- and my world was looking pretty good. Going to sign up for the sushi class and for the Chinese cooking class- Sushi could be daily if I can make it myself.

One week until school starts- Kindergarten orientation, Meet the Teacher, Pre- K orientation and the Ogre's orientation- a weekend of fun- and then school.

Counting down.

Summer is going by quick

2010-08-03T21:57:00.002-04:00

Can't believe that the summer is almost over. I finished my Diet and Nutrition class- with an "A". I was thrilled with my grade and signed up for a math class and a humanities class. Nothing like trying to make the next 4 months go by equally fast.

We finally found uniforms for Moose. We ordered shirts from Lands End - and Healthtex has 18 month size navy blue skorts. We also found some shorts in a 24 months that fit. Her shirts came in last week and I dropped them off at the school today. They will have the emblem put on them and she will be set for a couple of years.
Goose is getting navy blue and burgandy as well- just a different school. I hope that I can use the shirts next year at Moose's school- but under jumpers so the emblem doesn't show. She was a little easier to buy uniforms for.
The Ogre has new shorts- but no shirts- they are waiting for a shipment. He has plenty left over from last year so he is good to start school.

My uniforms- oh wait- I don't get new school clothes- just classes.

We renewed Ogre's passport and he goes to London in January. He is super excited about the trip and I am as well. I really want to go- but he will travel with the drama club and have a great time.
Not much else going on this week. We have finish getting school supplies and the girls are going for first haircuts in the next week or so. I keep wanting to get it done- but never have my camera when I think of it.

Aloha Tuesday

2010-07-25T12:05:00.000-04:00

Tuesday with Chris and Kim

Beautiful Hula girls

Playing ball

Moose hit her head- a little ice pack made it better

Birthday cup cakes

Lunch- Chris made a wonderful lunch. I want him to come cook for me everyday

Tuesday - catching some rays

Chris- great chef, fab Dad

Grandma and Grandpa

We were invited to Tuesday's 5th birthday party. Tuesday and Moose came home at the same time, from the same city in China. She came to Moose's party last weekend- and we made the trip down to Melbourne for hers.

We stopped at Belks- and were glad that we did. Uniform shorts that fit. So we got her a couple pair of shorts and headed to the party.

We had a great time- 7 little girls played for a couple of hours in the pool. They hated to get out to eat. The food was wonderful-

They played pin the tail feathers on the Toucan- and did the hula.

The girls did the more swimmimg. I think everyone of them found a "reason" to go back in the water just for 1 more minute.

We had a great time- and hope to see Tuesday again- before she moves to Atlanta.

Tea Party for Moose

2010-07-17T22:10:00.000-04:00

Moose in her Jumbo Fun Ball

Ge Ge was not allowed to stay at the party- Moose decreed "NO boys at my party"

Not sure whose Hiney this is

The best Tea Party Cake ever!!!

Lunch for the girlies-

and Mommies

The food was the easy part- just all things we had to make that morning

Our dining room table

Our China Beauties- Tuesday, Moose, Goose, and Caidi(not sure what was up with my camera)

getting ready to sing Happy Birthday!

China Sisters

Tuesday and Kim

Tuesday the Cheetah Girl

Elaina getting all "cheetahed" out

Abigail- ready for lunch

Sweet Princess Elaina

Beautiful Caidi

Our friend Taylor

Goose loved the "tea"- pink raspberry lemonade

Tuesday- Moose's China Sister

Grandma channeling her inner Egyptian

Make up by Alyssa

Moose and Goose

Taylor all dolled up

Time for my nails

Abigail decorating a hat

Moose and Elaina

Abigail and Moose

My Goose- flower child- Not likely- We had a "tea party"

Elaina- or Princess Barbie

Taylor getting a little make up

Sisters ready for their "make over"

Oh the things we have done since last I blogged. The 4th of July was just the start of our month and it has only gotten busier.

Since Moose has her birthday on the 4th- we opted to have her birthday party later in the month. She wanted to have a tea party. We had so much fun planning it- and the girls had so much fun at the party.

She picked out tea cup invitations. They were to cute with with little tea bags that had the date, time and RSVP information. We kept it small- so with Moose and Goose we had 7 girls.

We had 5 beautiful porcelain tea cups- and shopped the Good Will until we found a few more. We also shopped and found some more dress up clothing. The old prom gowns, purses, scarves, shoes, and jewelry. We planned the menu and ordered the cake.

My friend Jennifer came over the night before and helped me do some early cooking, some serious dusting, and a movie and wine- because we worked hard and deserved it.

All the dress up clothes were hung up on hangers- on a clothing rack, the scarves and shoes were put out for the little girls to look through- and jewelry on the table for them to find those perfect pieces.

We set the dining room table- linen table cloth, the finest pink flatware and paper products that we could find. Each place setting had a tea cup, a table favor, and of course place cards. Moose helped set the table and picked where each little girl would sit.

The menu for the little girls was Mac and Cheese, peanut butter and strawberry preserve sandwiches, lil' smokie rolls, and fresh fruit- strawberries, grapes, cherries. The Mommies had salad and sandwiches- a little mac and cheese, a little of this and a little of that.

The girls had their make up done by Alyssa, dressed up and changed multiple times, and had a great time.

We played Tape the Tiara on the Princess- with the "princess" being a poster of Moose.

Cake - chocolate with chocolate icing- and decorated with a Princess Tea set- made the girls afternoon- and for those who did not want chocolate- we had vanilla cupcakes with strawberry icing. (I let my inner Martha Stewart out).

The party ended at 2pm- and my Moose and Goose were so tired- that when we went to Walmart to look for school supplies- they were asleep before we were out of the drive way.

Moose love having her "BFF's" here to celebrate her birthday. We had one of our China sisters here- Tuesday and her Mommy came over from the coast. TJ, Caidi, Elaina, and Abigail all helped to celebrate- and we were happy to have them here .

Computer Woes

2010-07-10T00:35:00.002-04:00

I got home from work last night- and the computer had died. Could not get it to turn on for love or money ( I have plenty of love- not so much the money)

I made arrangements for the computer to go to the tech Doc- but I had not computer for the night.

A quick trip to Sam's Club solved that problem.

I was able to get a new computer. A beautiful HP- with all the bells and whistles I could possibly need or want.

Most importantly- I can upload photos, have plenty of memory, fast processor, and a kick butt monitor. The monitor has a better picture than the TV.

I was able to get the Ogre's computer fixed- and I was able to get my old computer fixed- it needed a new hard drive.

So the Ogre is back on line- and the girls have their very own computer to play games, and watch Taylor Swift movies.

I am thrilled!

School is going great- and one class is winding down- I have to register for two more classes.

Moving on.

Moose and Goose are staying home this summer- Ogre and Haley take turns baby sitting each day.

Summer Marches swiftly on!

Happy Birthday Moose!!!!

2010-07-04T00:07:00.000-04:00

Tj and Moose- Moose is 3 weeks older.

The Big kids- shooting off fireworks in the front

Ogre is concentrating

Haley and Charlie

Becca and Josh

Moose holding Elliot (Goose held him as well- but no one got a picture)

She told me she would make a face if I took her picture- I told her I would blog it

Today is July 4th- and the Moose turns 5 years old today! America turns 234 years old.

The changes in the Moose are extraordinary- and of course she has changed from a baby- to an amazing little girl.

She is smart, funny, caring compassionate and so loving. Eager to please, sorry to displease. Trys to follow the rules- and very concerned about her manners. Loves to sit down and watch a movie or play outside and catch bugs. She is a wonderful sister and fantastic daughter. We are so blessed to have her in our family.

I wished the Moose a Happy Birthday today- and as she sat in my lap watching the fireworks ( Nice of the city to put on that nice display for her birthday) I sang her Happy Birthday. We did not celebrate today (she did get a couple of presents) - in a couple of weeks she is having a tea party (so conservative in this house- even my kids are Tea Partiers) and we are getting ready for that.

Today we had our annual 4th of July BBq. Great menu with smoked pork, Baked beans, Asian cole slaw, potato salad, deviled eggs- and cupcakes, banana pudding, brownies and apple pie for dessert. This year we had 30 friends and family over- and even with the rainy weather (kept the temp down- and it was nice and cool) we had a great time!

the Zoo and friends swam, played in the sandbox, bounced in the bouncy house- and ran themselves ragged.

The Moose even managed to eat an entire hotdog- and a cupcake -when she finally stopped playing long enough to eat.

She told me it was her "best birthday ever until my teaparty Mommy"

She is excited to 5 years old- a whole hand.

Lets just hope that she sleeps in until 7 am in the morning.

At Aunt Eddie's

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Practice on the dock

Hanging in the water

Blake getting ready

Letting out a little more rope

They look so far away

Big smiles

This is fun

A little wave action

This was the big bump- a little concern- and then all smiles again

Checking to make sure Blake is there

Laughing

In the boat-

Goose is loving the driving part- Moose wants to know if it is her turn

Waiting for Moose to finish up- so I can have another turn

Did you see me????

There are a thousand things I should be doing- but today we went to my Aunt Eddie Sue's to play on the water. They have a boat- so I took Moose and Goose over there to go out on the boat and to ride on the tube. (NO- not by themselves)

My cousin Blake (good looking one on the tube with the girls) took them out. At first I thought it was going to be a no go- Moose was telling me No- she didn't "tink" so. Goose has gone on it before- so I knew she would like it.

We had a "practice" session on the dock where they just lay down on the tube and held on- then we "practiced" in the water- they sat on it, laid down on it- but we did not move, and then we were allowed to move very slowly. Seriously- I could have paddled faster. We inched our way up from there. They loved it- I don't think they even got wet. They bounced, they laughed, and after 1 very bouncy bump- they looked concerned.

They also got to drive the boat with a little help from Uncle Kirk. I am not sure which they enjoyed more- the tube or the driving.

After boating and tubing we had a little lunch with Eddie and Kirk. It was a great afternoon. We had to leave early- to beat the rain- and to get to both Costco and Sam's.

The girls fell asleep in the car- so we were lucky that Poppy didn't want to go into Costco. A quick run in- and lucky us- lunch boxes were on sale. Goose got a brand new lunch box for her new pre-school. (now I just have to worry about uniforms for the two of them)

A little shopping for our 4th of July BBQ- and then a quick stop at the Party store for invitations.

A busy day- and I am thankful that this is a 3 day weekend.

Some cooking and cleaning this evening- so that I can have some fun tomorrow.

Downtown Disney -A Mini Mei Dreams Lunch

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Great time with Kerry, Kai Lan, Li Hong, and Gina, Avery and Andrew.

We met at Downtown Disney for lunch and splash pad fun. The girls had a great time. Moose's bathing suit is a little big- but it stayed up and that was the important part.

Not a lot going on so far- way to hot to do much outside- and so much to get ready for in July.

School is kicking butt- I am focused on the goal.

I did take the girls out of daycare for the summer. Ogre and Haley are going to watch them this summer. It is a great time for the big kids and little kids. I love that Haley will get to spend some time with the girls, and I think the Ogre will as well. He will be 18 and in college or the Navy- and the time he spends with the girls now is so important for them. I also love that I am saving a little money. Not that I get to keep it- the Ogre is going to London next winter- so the savings and his earnings are going into that fund.

Love summers- it just seems to be passing so fast.

Moose Graduates from VPK

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Moose and a friend

In her cap and gown

The VPK class

walking to her seat

so proud of herself- and she should be

playing with her sister

My friend Abigail

The four amigos

Smile Moose

A hug from Prince Devon

Devon with the girls

Ms. Marisol- Goose's favorite person in the school. She won't be her teacher next year- but will see her in the mornings. Not sure who graduation is harder on- parents or Marisol

Ice cream cake

So- since I last blogged- and my parents will tell you that they remind me to blog- but who has time.

Moose graduated from VPK (voluntary pre- K) or K-4. She wore a cap and gown- walked down the aisle, stood on the stage and sang her little heart out. It was wonderful!!! She did such a great job- the girl had no fear of being on stage in front of the audience. They sang "What a Beautiful World" and "Somewhere Over the Rainbow"- they also did some songs that they both sang and signed. ( I want her to continue with the signing- it is considered a foreign language.

It was such sweet moment- but it is hard because I am a little worried about how Goose is going to do next year. They have never been separated for any real length of time. They have been in different classes- but before and after class time- they were together. So next year brings a lot of changes. Moose will be at the grade school the Ogre went to. It is a charter school and I really liked it when the Ogre went there. I have a friend whose daughter goes there- and I think it will be a good fit for the Moose. Goose will be great at her pre-school. They are growing up- and if possible it seems faster this time around.

Moose is the only child from her class going to her new school. It is sad- she has friends- and she will miss them. Devon is a little boy in her class- and he has a crush on the Moose. I think the feeling is shared. She told me that she was going to be Ariel and Devon was going to be Prince Eric. She also wanted them to be a wedding cake topper. She will get to see them for a couple of weeks this summer- but then she and Goose will be staying home for the summer.

We ended Moose's night with flowers and cake- ice cream cake with her name on it. She was thrilled.

We are so proud of you Moose- you did great this year. You have grown - you like your homework, you studied your sight words, learned to count, and to write. You are a super sweet girl- and you are a shining star!

A little May- A little June- a whole lot of catching up

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Jim and me (don't I wish)

Haley at Epcot

Diva girls

Goose, Oliva, Moose and Zoe (Goose and Oliva are from the same orphanage)

At the park in Port Orange- could only get the dolphin fin

Moose and Goose with Genie

Jen and Haley- we were a little tired at this time

David, Taylor, Blake and Ogre (FSU, UF, UF, and high school- we are a family divided during football season)

The Zoo plus- visiting Great -Grandma on Mother's Day

Haley in her new glasses

Hey, Hey it's the Monkee- people say he monkeys around

getting her new video camera

Goose thought Haley was to big for the stuffed puppy

t-shirts-

Sweet 16 cupcakes

I have been very remiss in blogging lately. It just seems as if there is never enough time. Yes- I'm making excused- one of the blogs I follow- (Diet Coke Rocks) she blogs every day- multiple times a day- I fear I lack her dedication. I feel bad- I enjoy blogging- but I have joined the Face book cult- and spend more time on Face book than I do blogging. I originally started blogging to keep the memories for my kids- and I hate when I wait so long that I forget things. I also went back to school. I had originally thought to take two classes this summer and decided that I would take only one. Smart thing I did- Diet and Nutrition are kicking my butt. (could be because I think Chips/Salsa and Sour cream cover all the food groups and therefore is good for you!)

May was busy- We ended April with my Great Grandmother's 100th birthday party and headed straight into a "something has to be done every weekend".

The first weekend in May we went to a birthday party for my friend Kelly's little girl- Caidi. She turned 6 this year. She is also from China and has been home- going on 4 years. The party was at the beach- but not beach side. At a park that has a board walk around the inlet and we were able to see a dolphin playing in the water. I need a much faster camera so I can catch these pictures- all I was able to get was the fin.

Mother's Day weekend-I talked Jim into going to EPCOT to see Davy Jones play at the Flower Festival- only Jim and I went on Saturday night. We had a great time. I love Davy- so any chance to see him is taken. I used to watch the Monkee's every day when I got home from school- 4:30. I bought all the albums (used) at a used record store (yep- they were vinyl) even bought a lot of the trading cards. On Sunday- Jim and I took the girls out to Disney- for 2 or 3 hours. Just to walk around - and they asked if we could go. Before we went to Disney- everyone went to see my Grandmother. It was nice to spend a few hours with her- and it was everyone. My Aunt and Uncle came over with 3 of their boys. We took some great pictures of everyone.

The following weekend- we headed to Downtown Disney early- On Saturday- to meet a blogger friend/Mei Dreams friend at Downtown Disney. http://lifewitholiviarheaxiao.blogspot.com/ Her daughter Olivia and Goose are from the same orphanage- but we "met" online in the Mei Dreams (yahoo DTC group) when I was adopting Moose and she was getting Olivia. We had a great time watching the girls play- and after we went home. After we got home I roped- I mean asked the Ogre to babysit the girls so I could go back to EPCOT to hang with my favorite niece and BFF. We ran around EPCOT like crazy people- and then took the tram back to the Magic Kingdom to ride Space Mountain - Pirates and Buzz Lightyear. We did this in celebration of Haley's 16th birthday. Sunday- Jen came over for Jim to change brakes on her car (benefit of having a mechanic in the family) and while he did that we hit Best Buy and Sam's Club to buy her a birthday present - and buy dinner. A nice evening - grilled steaks, opened presents and of course cake and ice cream.

The weekend of the 22nd- we cleaned the house. I started with Ogre in his room. We cleaned drawers- we cleaned the closet- and we cleaned under the bed. There was dusting and furniture polishing. The room took most of the day- and then I skated out of the house and went with Jennifer and Michelle to see a movie. Letter to Juliette- love the movie and we had a great time. A couple of glasses of wine and movie with friends. Need it once in a while.

Sunday morning - up early and started work on the Moose and Goose's room. Again- moving furniture, dusting polishing, drawers and book shelves. The girls will most likely not fit into all of the winter clothes they had for this year- and we still had some 18 month size stuff to get rid of. They have room in the drawers now- and they are a great "help" in putting away their clean clothes.

We ended the month with family in from out of town. Had a great time with Jim's brother and his family. We were sad to see them go- but managed to pull ourselves together- for one more trip to Disney before our passes black out for the summer.

Haley and I pulled off balloons and cake for Jennifer's birthday- and then on her birthday(6/5) she, Michelle and I went to a gallery art show. The art was not to my taste- but we are working on getting out of our comfort zone- and being open to new experiences. We ended the day at the house with cake and ice cream.

Sunday - the Zoo went to EPCOT and Magic Kingdom- the girls wanted to say good bye to Mulan and Alladin for the summer and Poppy wanted to see the Electric Light Parade on Main Street. It was the lightest I had seen the crowds in a long time- the heat was bad- and there was not a breeze to be had. The parade was fantastic!!!! The girls loved it and I was glad they had the opportunity to see it before it leaves again.

The rest of this month is for relaxing and catching up on house stuff. I hope to be picking up some extra shifts doing hospice- the Ogre has asked to go to London with his drama class in January 2011. I am all for it- he is going to help pay for it- so he is going. I always wanted to go to Europe and I know he will have a great time.

I have also opted to go back to school. I have a year or so left to start the RN program and want to finish what I started so long ago.

Family Time

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Alladin and Jasmine- posing with the girls

Cameron wanted to meet Jasmine

A rare visit with Cinderella- we have never seen her in France before

American Adventure- A nice Memorial day - Remember this country is GREAT!!!

Not Captain Sparrow- but who needs Johnny Depp when you have "Goopy"

Mulan - (girls are not looking real impressed- this is not one we know)

Oregon family

Dreaming of being big enough for Sum of all Thrills

Dreaming of winning the lottery

Pirate League Members- Captain Sparrow is great!

Loving the merry go round- talked of nothing else until they went on it

Cousins-

Someone was a little jealous that the little zoo members were going crazy over their new cousin- -I'm not naming names-

A picture of all four-

I did not buy the t- shirt

Playing school in St. Augustine

photo op

Go Fly a Kite

We ended May with a visit from family- Jim's brother, (Jack), his wife (Priscilla) and their daughter (Cameron) came down to visit from Oregon.

We spent some time before their visit- getting the house ready for that visit. The Mickey Mouse bathroom got a little face lift- and the Ogre's room was cleaned (teenagers- I remember) and the girls room was cleaned (4 year olds- who knew).

The first day they were here we were committed to a picnic with our adoption agency. It is a annual event- we never miss it- and the girls were excited to go. We had a great time hanging out with friends and family. The girls played hard all day long. We were able to meet with people that I am mostly "on line friends" with- and see some others that we only see once or twice a year. Our family made a show- there were 10 of us present.

We ended the evening- by going to Downtown Disney- they had never been- and we thought it might be a good preview of what we doing Monday and Tuesday. We walked around- did a little shopping and had dinner at T- Rex. Great place to eat- a lot like Rain Forest Cafe- but all dinosaurs.

Sunday (May 30th) we spent at St. Augustine. We had planned on Disney- but holiday weekend- and the crowds- we opted to head out of town- see the historic sites and have some fun. The girls loved it- St. George Street is one of my favorites- and my favorite jewelry store is there as well (Filthy Rich). We spent most of the afternoon walking around- lunch at Santa Maria- over the water- and then off to the fort. Jim and I stayed out with the little zoo members- while Ogre, Cameron, Jack and Priscilla went in to check out the fort. Glad we opted to sit it out- Moose and Goose had a blast flying a kite with a local kids, and we met the Baileys- their daughter (also from China) is one of the cutest kids I've seen- and we found out just how small world it is- they know another adoptive family that we know here locally.

A few more stops as we headed back to the car- and we were south bound- and the kids were in the pool seconds after arriving home.

Monday (Memorial Day) we packed up and headed to EPCOT- Jim stayed with Moose and Goose- while the rest of us went on Test Track - and then we headed over to the Energy Pavilion. Great (air conditioned) ride- and we wandered around the countries. Moose and Goose were so happy to introduce their cousin to Mulan and Alladin. A special treat for us was getting to see Cinderella in France(rare one day appearance)We watched the movie in China- and pointed out all the - "I've been there- we stood there"- and "that is where Starbucks is"

We did end the evening with the fireworks- and then headed home- we skipped the swimming- and headed to bed (after watching the Transformers)

Tuesday morning - we headed to the Magic Kingdom- it was more crowded on Tuesday than on Memorial day. We let the adults and teens head out and do what they wanted and met them in between. So much there that Moose and Goose are not able to yet.

Moose and Goose were picked by "Captain Sparrow" to become members of the "Pirates League"- and I heard a lot of ahy Maties- that afternoon. Jack and Priscilla called it an early afternoon- and we came home for pool time and BBQ. Moose popped up as soon as we pulled in the driveway- but Goose was so tired- she slept a full 12 hours- and then only got up because I made her.

I sent the girls to pre- school on Wednesday- while Jim and Ogre went to Sea World with the family. They had a great time- but the girlies needed to get back to schedule and were happier for it.

They all played in the pool Wednesday evening- and sadly we said good by Thursday morning.

Moose was very upset Thursday afternoon when she came home from school- she wanted her cousin to be there to play.

April Showers

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Getting the pretties put in the hair

Crack kills-

She will kill me for this one- one day. Can you tell which one it is???? These pants are a size 24 months- and still to big in the waist for both of them. We adjuted the waist band down- and it still was not working

While the thought of Ogre driving strikes me fear- the idea that these two could be behind the wheel of the car is scary

Merry -go-round fun

Throwing pennies in the fountain

Main Street Characters- oh- and some people who work at Disney

Poppy making time with the ladies

Moose and friends

Grandma getting the hang of her new camera

Don't go in the water

They don't call her spicy for nothing

This is what tired and hungry looks like

OK- no real showers this April- but we have been busy. Our Disney passes opened up the weekend after Easter- so of course we headed out there. We have been planning Great Grandma's 100th birthday party, we had our family reunion, and the girl's preschool is having an art show at the end of the month (designed to bring you in for the book fair).

We did take a quick trip to Disney so that Grandma could play with her new camera. Her old camera was dropped- and she got a new Cannon. It takes great pictures- and she needed some play time and where else do you take lots of pictures. It was a really quick trip- I think we spent a total of two hours there. We did run into Joy and Craig with their daughter Cami- and her two sons (Anthony and Wesley). Moose and Goose had a great time running around with the boys for a while. We rode "Space" (Spaceship Earth) and Nemo and it was time to call it night.

The next day was our family reunion- we have one every year. It is my Grandmother's family reunion and it has been an annual event for 54 years. The numbers seem to be getting smaller- and I wish those who do not make the effort to come would realize how great it is that this event occurs. (remind me of this next year when I don't want to make the drive) The girls had an great time- we were able to hand out the invites for Great Grandma's birthday party- and the Ogre moped around (moody teenagers). It is about a two hour drive to the reunion- and the girls played, ate, played-played-played. When we loaded into the van to come home- there were two little girls sleeping before we even hit the highway.

I took 4 days off - starting the 15th. My company does not allow you to roll over any time off- so it was use it or lose it. Thursday I took myself down to the college and enrolled in my first class. Working towards my RN now. I may try to take a second class in the short semester during the summer if this one goes well.

Friday- I picked the girls up from school at 10:00 and we headed to Grandma's house. Picked up Grandma and Poppy and headed to the Magic Kingdom for the day. It was a beautiful day- the weather was great- the park was not crowded- and we had the best time.

The girls were able to do so much- and things we don't always get a chance to do. We took the girls to see Mickey's PhilharMagic- and much to my surprise even Goose kept on her 3D glasses and watched. Goose was a little worried during the movie- but Grandma says she believes she will get the use of her fingers back in time.

We were able to ride Peter Pan- which doesn't usually happen- the line is almost always to long. The Moose and Goose are loving the Peter Pan movie right now- so it was great to be able to ride it. We finished Fantasy Land with Snow White and Cinderella's Carousel.

We thought we would head to Toon Town- but got side tracked by the Tea Cups- and as soon as we were done with the teacups- Moose asked if we could "drive cars". Moose and Goose were excited to go drive the race cars. They got to drive- and I am not quite sure I will ever have full range of motion of my neck again.

After dinner- we were able to ride the Haunted Mansion, Aladdin's Magic carpets, Pirates and the Jungle Cruise. The girls watched some other little girls getting their hair wrapped- and asked if they could have it done- we picked out some super cool- match their bathing suit colors and even the Goose sat super still so they could have the hair wrap done.

We watched Tinkerbell fly down from the castle- and still made it to the car by the end of the fireworks. Two very tired little girls fell asleep in the van on the way home- and one very tired Mommy was asleep when she got home.

On Saturday (4/17) we met Kim, Chris and Tuesday at their place in Cocoa Beach. It was a nice drive-Ogre went with us and the girls were so excited to be able to spend the day with him.

We played on the beach- we played in the pool- and we walked along the pier and had dinner before heading home. Moose has talked about the beach and Tuesday ever since.

Since it was my vacation- and we live so close to the happiest place on earth- we went to EPCOT on Sunday- and found the April Showers the month is so famous for. We spent the rainy time at Nemo- and the girls watched "Turtle Talk with Crush"- twice. The Ogre went with us this time- and we had a great time. We went to visit Mulan and then Moose asked if we could go see Aladdin- she giggled and I swear I saw fluttering eye lashes.

My "staycation" ended with lunch and movies on Monday and more school stuff on Tuesday. It was wonderful to be off of the job for 6 days- and I got so much accomplished. School starts May 10th- and nervous as I am- I am exciting to get it done.

Today-Jen and I decided to go to New Smyrna for the monthly wine walk. I don't really drink- but most of the paces had a Riesling to try- and there was a great sparkling wine at Gyftz that I loved. It was great fun- we went into shops that we did not even know were there. The day ended with Chinese with Moose, Goose and Haley. Haley babysat for me- and took the girls down to the pool (along with her friend Ally)- again two very tired little girls asleep long before we got home.

Easter

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What a great day spent with family and friends.

The girls were up way to early for a Sunday- but even then I had to remind them that the Easter bunny had come. They were super excited to see their little Easter Baskets- not a lot of candy- but the girls got a new bathing suits- and cover ups. Ogre got his X box fixed and a new video game. Enough candy to make them happy- and little enough to make the dentist happy.

I had to make Mac & Cheese - and I do believe that I have managed to find the best recipe- apparently the right mixture is 2lbs pasta, and 3-4lbs cheese. I know I did it right - my cousin Blake asked me to make it for our family reunion next weekend.

We went to Aunt Eddie Sue's for lunch/dinner, egg hunts , and water fun. The girls posed for Mommy's pictures- and changed into new bathing suits for water play. They played in the lake for a couple of hours- and ate as little as possible. Who has time to eat- when there are fish to catch????

Moose loved swinging- as long as the swing barely moved- she had the white knuckle grip on the rope- and legs criss crossed around it as well. She would swing a foot or so- and yell- "wheeeeeee". It was great. Goose would go a little higher- but she had a hard time staying straight up and down.

I would love to say that the girls fell asleep in the car- and slept all night. They were wound tight as a top- and had a hard time falling asleep at all. The Ogre did not want to sleep either- he wanted to stay up and play games.

School starts tomorrow- and Mommy- if not the Ogre, is very happy.

School Pictures

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My two girls

Moose is moving up to Kindergarten

Cap and Gown at 4

Happy Birthday Grandma!!!

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Happy Birthday Grandma!

Guess Who is 100!!!!!

My Grandmother turns 100 years old today! Can you imagine living 1 century. 100 years - the changes she has seen, the things she has seen invented, the wars she has lived through. It is mind boggling. The times she lived through shaped her life, but more than what she experienced- her faith in God, her unwavering faith in God has shaped her life. She is the most amazing person I know.

She touchs every person she meets- she truly lives what she believes.

Our family is blessed to have her- blessed to have her influence in our lives, our children's lives and our friend's lives.

Grandma- I hope 100 is the start of a great year for you!

Happy Birthday Daddy!

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Happy Birthday Daddy!

65 years

May this year be your Best!

Today my Dad turns 65! He is a great Dad, and the best Potty :-)

I am lucky to have you as my Father-

Thank you for everything you have given to me- and for all you have done!

Weekend fun!

2010-03-29T23:09:00.003-04:00

Last weekend was busy- no trips to Disney- we are blacked out from going until the weekend after Easter. It's a hard time for me- so we tend to go to Downtown Disney or what I call "Diet Disney"- great atmosphere-no rides or characters.

Friday night the girls stayed up to watch the Wizard of Oz- they love the movie, I want the Wicked Witch to win. After about the 100th time of watching it (this go around- the Ogre watched it non stop when he was little) you realize that Dorothy whines, Toto has fleas, the Scarecrow is filled with bugs, the Tin Man needs to be recycled and the Lion would make a nice jacket- but then I remind myself- they are only little for a little while and it beats Barney.

Saturday we took the girls to a local park- they had a blast playing on the new playground. The slides were still damp with dew- but it didn't stop the girls from playing hard. They were so disappointed when we had to go home- but home we went. I had to wrap birthday presents. We were going to Sophie's Birthday party at the gym--Sophie turned 3, and is the daughter of our friends Susan and Riz. The girls had a great time- tumbling, balance beams and Goose even tried the uneven bars. They may have to go to gymnastics next year.

I brought the girls home- and put shirts into soak- because blue icing does not look good on white shirts- no matter what your four year old tells you. Questioning what to do about dinner- and we opted to go to Downtown Disney for dinner. The Earl of Sandwich is a great -quick place to eat- and it's nice to be able to wear the little girlies out.

We parked- and the girls walked- Moose and Goose were hungry- and ate chicken Cesar salad- 1/2 of one each- they also had chocolate pudding and chips. There was a DJ set up- and the girls wanted to start dancing as soon as they finished eating- and had a blast.

Party Animals that they are- at 9ish- Moose stopped dancing, asked to be picked up- and wanted to go home.

They did decide that a stop at the toy store was a good idea- and thought playing Mr. Potato head was a good way to end the night.

They were out by the time we hit the highway.

Sunday- Jim and I got up early- and went to Sam's Club to do the grocery shopping- Moose said she didn't feel good and asked if she could stay at home with the Ogre. She never passes up Sam's Club- and the possible Pizza that comes with it. When we got home- Moose was running a fever, her cough had gotten worse- and she looked miserable.

Goose stayed home with Ogre and Daddy- while Mommy and Moose went to the doctor. Thank you- to our Doc's office for their weekend hours. They were fairly busy- but Moose was seen, diagnosed, and we were on our way. Even the pharmacy- where the wait is normally 2 hours- was able to get us in and out in 15 minutes.

We spent the rest of the afternoon- lazy days in Mommy's bed- napping/watching tv.

Today- the Goose went to school- and Moose stayed home with her Ge Ge(big brother) The Ogre offered to watch her today- so I could go to work and take Wednesday off. He took great care of her- made sure she did not dehydrate, picked her favorite movies (today it was Mulan and The Wizard of Oz) and even let her play Guitar Hero. He made her lunch- and kept her entertained. He is a great big brother.

Green Auctions and Easter Bunnies

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My Mom's friends (Sally and Millie) have a green auction every year. The Green Auction is to raise money for Breast Cancer research. It is held right before/after St. Patrick's Day- everyone wears green, brings a green item (this year I had a salad bowl with different dressings and french bread in it) wrapped in Green, and a green food item(some are not green). We eat, drink, and make merry- then it gets down and dirty (not really dirty) and the auction begins. They auction off each wrapped item- it goes to the highest bidder. We vote on a charity to donate the money to- it is usually the Susan G Komen Foundation. This year we raised $813 to donate.

I rode over with my Mom- and we stayed to help clean up- and then we sat around and talked until 1:30 in the morning- so I got home at close to 3am. At least I got to sleep until 9am.

Today- plans were for Disney. However- Mother Nature decided to bless us with a lot of rain today. We canceled the Disney plans and went to the mall. Moose and Goose love to shop (they get it from me) and we wandered through the mall- letting them burn off some energy- and as we wandered out of Macy's- they saw the Easter Bunny. They stopped and watched him - after 5 minutes or so - we urged them along and Moose was right there with the "where is the Easter Bunny- where did he go?" Something else caught her attention- so I thought maybe we wouldn't have to go meet the Easter Bunny- but as soon as we headed down stairs- she asked- "can we go see the Easter Bunny now?"- so we did. Antsy little girls waited in line- and we snapped one picture while they sat with the bunny.

The girls said good-bye to the bunny- and we wandered around the mall. As we approached the Build a Bear store - the Moose and Goose both said- "we want to shop in there for a little bit"- so we walked around. I do believe that we will be building a bear soon. Do I have to buy the really overpriced little outfits and shoes???? I will- but really.

They were more than happy to try on shoes- and jewelry. I would like to add for anyone looking that Zales has a nice selection of "Hello Kitty" fine jewelry- and no we did not buy any.

They took pictures last week- with Cap and Gown pic's for the Moose. Can't wait to get them back- should be cute. I can't believe she will start school in August. Goose took cupcakes to school on her birthday- Moose was upset- she wanted to know if it was Goose's birthday did it mean that Goose was 5 now?- Explained to her- that we had celebrated early- but that Goose had to be 4 for a whole year just like Moose did.

Moose's eczema has been flaring up - all the time- it seems as if we get it under control- and we do keep moisturising- and then it is back to bad. She seems to get it the worst on her neck (front and center) Currently we are using a combo of Dermasmooth (works great- but has steroid in it- so I hate to use it if she is not bad) Stokolan cream (works pretty good) and Safflower Oil.

Moose hates lotion- likes oils- and tolerates the Stokolan. If anyone has suggestions- please send them.

We also made the big decision to drop our internet provider and home phone service. We had dropped the cable part of our bundle- about a year ago. We went with Direct Tv- and while we (I) don't really have any complaints- we are planning on switching to U-verse at the end of our contract. We had left our internet and phone with the provider we had always had (beep- beep)- but- we got a great deal- and just think- a new e-mail address with no spam-who could resist.

We had already canceled the phone- they kindly offered to allow us until Tuesday to think about it- and urged us to call them if we changed our mind. It's a done deal.

No Disney for us- 3 weeks or so. We are blacked out for 2 weekends- and April is packed with family stuff. Birthday parties, Easter, family reunion.

Looking into taking a couple of photography classes and would like to find a photo shop class. Love taking pictures- but would like to learn more about editing them.

Staying busy- and it's a good thing.

Happy St. Patrick's Day

2010-03-17T21:35:00.004-04:00

Happy St. Patrick's Day to one and all! We all wore green- and we had the traditional corn beef and cabbage- because really- can you eat anything else today!

My conversation with Moose today was about being Irish -
Mommy: Moose - your shirt says -Kiss Me I'm Irish?
Moose: Mommy- I'm not Irish Mommy- I'm Chinese
Mommy:- That's OK- Mommy is Irish
Moose: OH- Kiss Mommy-I'm Irish

The girl is to funny.

Goose has her moments as well. We went to the zoo and the girls were a little tired and a little crabby. My friend Stephanie said to her daughter- "I see someone is a little crabby"
Caia replied- "I am not crabby" and Goose piped it- hands on her hips- "You are to crabby-You are not listening".

This past weekend was a busy one- but a long one for me. I took Friday and Monday off. Friday was to be our Disney day- but Mother Nature had other plans - and with all of the rain and general nasty weather- Jim and I ran errands- we got Moose registered for kindergarten and Goose registered for VPK. We picked up birthday presents for the Goose (a Light Brite Cube and Slip n Slide) and picked the girls up from school during nap time. They were super excited to come home- and Mommy was equally excited- because she took advantage of the time off to take a nap. We opted to stay home from Disney- and it was a fairly early evening for all.
Saturday morning- we spent some time cleaning the house- and then Jim and I had to go to Lowes. We bought the makings for a sandbox. We ran into Wal Mart and decided to get the girls a swing set. Not the beautiful wood- sell your kidney on the black market to put a down payment on it swing set- but a nice little swing set they can play on in the back yard.
Jim worked all afternoon on building a sandbox, putting the swing set together and mulching the area in.
Since we wanted to surprise the girls with this on Sunday- I graciously offered to take the girls away for the afternoon. We picked up Grandma and headed to ----Costco. We had to pick up the birthday cake for Goose's party on Sunday. Girl shares her Mommy's taste in all things Chocolate. She picked out the chocolate cake, chocolate icing, and filled with chocolate. We had vanilla ice cream - so other flavors were represented.
After that- we hit the road to EPCOT. Paul Revere and the Raiders (or Captain Crunch as we refer to him) was playing the Flower Show and we wanted to see him- and take the girls. Ogre opted to go to Universal (yes it hurts to type that) with Fiona to see Aretha Franklin. We briefly considered going to Universal- spending the ticket price and seeing legendary AF sing - but common $ence prevailed and we passed the exit and headed on down the road.
We got to EPCOT- and decided to go see Mulan while we had a few minutes- the girls were happy to see her- and told her about Goose's party the next day. She had quite a following that afternoon so we headed around the showcase and went to see Aladdin and Jasmine. The girls were given star treatment with Aladdin- and Mommy and Grandma were grateful- because it meant we could catch the last Captain Crunch show.
Paul Revere was great- he is funny- and the show is worth going to see. I love the Flower Festival and Food/Wine festival concert series. It gives us a chance to see people that I would never get a chance to see otherwise. We have seen Paul Revere, The Beach Boy(s), Village People, Chubby Checker (the girls love to twist), Los Lobos, David Cassidy, Little Richard, and my favorite- Davy Jones. I know there are others that I am forgetting- but it's great!
Sunday was cooking, cleaning and finishing the new Zooground play area.
We had smoked pork, mac&cheese, baked beans, Asian Cole Slaw- and of course birthday cake and ice cream. The girls had a great time- and played outside for hours. They ate - and Goose blew out the candles on the first try.
Moose and Goose had practiced for the big day by singing Happy Birthday - and at the end Moose would say- "Now blow out the candles" - the practice paid off- because Goose got it right the first time.
It was a wonderful day- and two very tired little girls went to bed.
Monday- still having a day off- we met Stephanie and Caia at the house- and went to Panera for lunch. Try the new Mac & cheese- it is yummy! We then headed to our local zoo. We have a very small zoo- we are members, but we joined for the discounts at the other zoos and aquariums. It has paid for itself - with visits to just a couple of other places.
The girls had a great time. To cold for the splash pad- but they played - they walked around the zoo twice. They watched the elephant, they watched the Emu's and kangaroos. We checked out the snakes and gators(gators are not zoo animals in Florida- I think they just wander in from the St. Johns)We oohed and aahed over monkeys and big cats and the girls were exhausted at the end of the afternoon- 3 little girls swore up and down they were not tired and we could stay just a little longer- those same 3 girls were asleep before I left the parking lot. Two mommies wanted to sleep as well- but we didn't have the option.

Moose and Goose begged to stay up- they did not want to go to bed- they were not tired. Tucked in at 7:30- and asleep by 7:35. They both slept all night- and in their beds. Maybe being 4 is going to work for Goose.
Moose for her part- was not jealous of Goose being center of attention- she was super happy for her sister. She was more thrilled that Goose is 4. "Goose you are 4- just like me- now we are twins" Need to work on that explanation.

The start of March Madness

2010-03-01T22:24:00.004-05:00

The girls and Pinocchio

Love this picture

This one to

Hanging out at pirates

Waiting for the parade

Marie from the Aristocrats

The Dragon at China- the Flower Festival starts soon

Mulan and the girls

Hugs for a good friend

On Saturday the 2/27 - it was rainy all morning. My Mom and I went to Macy's for the monthly (seems like it) one day sale. It was a great sale. I managed to cross of several birthdays and Christmas presents off my list for well under $40. I did get the Moose and Goose a couple of outfits- but really- they needed them. It seems as if they have to wear the same outfit more than once these days. (just kidding)

I had promised the Ogre that I would take him over to Fiona's house- to drop off my computer (her dad is a computer guy) and that she could come over after dinner. Since the rain was letting up- I asked Jim if he wanted to go to EPCOT to see Mulan, have dinner, ride a few rides and then head home.

We packed up the girls and headed out. They were so excited to see Mulan. Moose asked if it was the "real" Mulan- or if it was her friend. We took them to China- and they got to see her as soon as she walked out. Hugs and kisses- they were so happy!!! We had to walk out with her, stand in line to see her, leave so other kids could have a turn- and then get back in line.

We did see a couple that we had met previously- and their daughter -Emma. She is a cute little girl. Moose and Goose wanted her to meet Mulan- (she had already) and loved talking to her.

Moose refers to almost every child from China as her friend. She does have favorties- Katie Starr and Tuesday are her favorite friends from China. I believe that is because she sees them the most- and I follow Katie's Mommy's blog- and Tuesday and Moose are from the same orphanage in China.

We did a whirlwind walk around the showcase- finished with a ride on Spaceship Earth- and then headed home.

Fiona came over- and the Ogre and Fiona watched Grease. Yes- I still know the words to "there are worse things I can do" and "Beauty School Dropout"

On Sunday- the girls wanted to wear their hair- and they picked the Magic Kingdom. It was a great day- the Ogre decided since all avenues of fun were currently unavailable- that he would bless us with his presence at the Magic Kingdom. This way he racked up- "I spent a Sunday with my family" points- and I played with my little sister" points. Not to mention- he had to pay back- "my Mom took my girlfriend home - late on Saturday night -even though she was in her pajamas ".

The girls got to meet Daisy Duck, Pluto, and Pinocchio. They have autograph books now- and were thrilled to go meet Daisy first. They have been meeting the different characters- and taking pictures- but the autograph books are new to them. They were happy to have them signed by Daisy. When it was time to move over to Pluto- Goose had fit. She was not going to meet that dog- she wanted nothing to do with him. As soon as Moose walked up to Pluto and gave him a hug- she was right there wanting a turn.

We got great seats for the parade- and the girls got to see all the characters in the parade. It was great because so many of them walk in this parade- and the girls got high fives and hugs from many of them.

We did go on a few rides- the girls wanted to go on the People mover in Tomorrowland- they have changed the narrative and I don't like it as much. It could just be that I like what I grew up with. When the revamped Spaceship Earth at EPCOT - I was very disappointed- they definitely "dumbed it down" for the general public.

Other happenings- Moose has graduated from speech therapy. Her speech is age appropriate and she is doing great. Goose is getting speech - one on one now. She will get it for at least the next year. I don't know if she will need it after that. She has always had better speech than the Moose did at the same age. Something just clicked with the Moose and hers took off. I hope with the one on one with Michelle (therapist) - that Goose will do the same.

We are working on sight words with the Moose. If anyone has any tricks or methods that work- feel free to share. She is doing great- she knows 20 of the 30 the school gave me. Not sure how many they need to know to get out of Kindergarten. I have another list of words that I got from a friend and as soon as she knows the words that the pre-school gave me-we will start on the others.

My Grandmother came home from the hospital. She is doing well- she is happy to be at home. She has someone with her all the time-and it seems to be working out for her. She will be 100 on April 1st.

March is a busy month - Goose turns 4 this month, my Dad turns 65, St. Patrick's day and the Green Auction.

Aladdin and Jasmine x 3

2010-02-28T10:11:00.005-05:00

Aladdin and Jasmine x 3

Admiring the hair

They are lovely

playing hopscotch

With Poppy- wheel chair is so much better than stroller

Everything is colder when the sun goes down-no matter what Kenny Chesney says

Checking out the belly button- I hear Disney is looking for someone to replace Miley.

Moose's pants had to be pulled tighter- with a rubber band- and Goose's had to be rolled up. We bought XS- this costume does not come in an XXS- they should fit for some time.

Snow White told the girls they could make a wish

Mulan's friend-

It was a beautiful weekend- and we decided to take advantage of the great weather and have a garage sale. We needed to get rid of some of the stuff hanging around in our garage from the last sale- and a few more items we had decided to get rid of .

We had been talking about getting the girls a Disney costume- either the new pirate costume or the Jasmine costume. I gave the girls the final decision and they picked Jasmine. As soon as they decided they wanted to be Jasmine- Goose started pulling her shirt up to look at her belly button.

My Mom and I went out Saturday afternoon and got a few things the girls would need- and on Sunday morning we went to Disney.

We stopped at my Grandmother's house on the way to see her and Aunt Eddie Sue. My Grandmother is 99 years old and until this past October was still living alone. She fell one evening- and while she did not break anything in that fall- it has been very hard on her. She is back home now- but not on her own- and the girls wanted to stop and say hi.

We continued on our trip to Downtown Disney- and the girls, my Mom and I went into the big World of Disney store- and found their costumes. Jasmine costumes and crowns. The smallest they make them in is an extra small. Moose and Goose both need to have a little tuck taken in the waist- but we made due with safety pins that day. We also got them the crown to go with the costume- the girls loved it!

We put them into the costumes there- and then headed over to EPCOT for the rest of the afternoon.

Goose loved showing her belly- and if we pulled her pants up a little bit- she would check to see if her belly button was showing- if it wasn't- she would pull those pants back down until it was. Grandma told her she could do that until she was 5 years old- and then she had to cover it up.

(She needs to think Annette Funicello not Brittney Spears)

It was a quick day at the park- we did stop to see Mulan- or Mulan's helper - as our Mulan was off. The girls were a little disappointed- but the smiled for pictures just the same. They think the "real" Mulan was helping Mushu stay out of trouble.

We were able to meet Snow White again- this is the third time the girls have talked to Snow White. She let the girls make a wish in her wishing well- but the girls did not want to spend to much time in Germany- they wanted to see Aladdin.

While making our way around the World Showcase- we stopped to watch the twirling- a baton competition was being held at EPCOT- and they had little girls (4 ish) up to high schoolers. They were great- the girls loved watching- but I asked Moose if she wanted to do that and she said "NO"-I'll be on the radio like Taylor Swift

We then headed off to see Aladdin and Jasmine. The girls were thrilled that Aladdin remembered them. They were to happy to pose for pictures- Moose is a complete ham anyway- and Goose will pose for a picture- just because Moose is.

Goose was very happy to compare belly buttons with Jasmine- (I think I may have a real hard time with the clothing thing)

The one thing the girls wanted to do more than anything was to go on Spaceship Earth. They ask every time we walk into EPCOT. It has worked for us to go on "space" - on the way out of the park. This way we are headed to a ride- and not just out of the park. The love the ride because it take their pictures and puts them in a little video at the end.

The girls had a great time with my Dad- they like riding in the wheel chair with him- or pushing him in it. I don't know why the wheel chair is so much better than the stroller- but it is.

Hope that the weather starts to improve (global warming????) and we are able to head out a bit more.

Computer Woes

2010-02-21T22:55:00.002-05:00

I sat down at my computer on Wednesday evening- and I was locked out. A virus. I don't know from where the virus has come- or what it is going to take to get my computer back and running. It is going to the shop tomorrow- and I hope to have it back soon.

I have begged my son to move his computer out to the family room- so that I can use it and still access- the blog, Facebook, my email and everything else that I like to have access to.

I don't have photo shop on this computer-and I miss being able to edit my pictures- I feel lost without all of my files and saved favorites. I hope it comes back soon.

Happy Valentine's Day

2010-02-14T22:42:00.000-05:00

The girls LOVE Fiona. (her blog name)- and have a great time with her when she comes over.

Valentines Day was fairly quiet. My husband surprised me with two beads for my Pandora bracelet. The Moose and Goose loved their Disney underwear and camisoles, and the Ogre was thrilled to get candy- and a promise for help with a future video game that he wants.

The Ogre invited Fiona over for dinner and to watch the Daytona 500- so we also invited Grandma and Poppy over for dinner. We BBQ'd ribs and added salad, macaroni and cheese, and baked beans- all were happy. We ended the night with home movies (gotta break Fiona in quick).

It was an early evening for all- next weekend Disney.

Gong Hei Fat Choy

2010-02-13T10:20:00.000-05:00

Happy New Year!!!! It is the year of the Tiger. Our family wishes yours a happy, prosperous, and healthy New Year.
We celebrated Chinese New Year with Martha (our adoption coordinator) and other families at a restaurant in town. There is a buffet dinner, the traditional Lion Dance, and a display of Kung Fu and Tai Chi. The girls dressed in traditional Chinese silks- and handed out red envelopes (called Hong Bao -in Mandarin or Lai See in Cantonese) with chocolate coins. In China it is tradition to hand out the Hong Bao with money in it to friends and family.

We were able to see Mausami and her Mom- they own the adoption agency that we used in adopting one of our daughters. We hope they will come with Norman to the picnic in May.

The girls had a great time handing out and getting Hong Bao- and while they did not want to watch the Lion Dance from their own chairs- they had no problems following the Lion out the door into the parking lot to continue watching. They also sat next to the Lion costume after the show for pictures.

They loved the drum - and the young man who played the drum- gave them the drum sticks and helped them beat the rhythm afterwards.

We hated to say good night- but the Ogre had a date with Tanya and it was time to take him over there- over all it was a wonderful evening- spent with family and friends.

Go Saints!!!!!

2010-02-07T21:19:00.005-05:00

Ogre and Tanya - this picture is his new profile pic on Facebook

Dancing with in front of the blue screen.

Sitting with the girls (they loved her- and did everything they could to show off for her)

Ogre and Tanya

No resemblance to Micky

Playing games at Chuckie's

The Birthday Girl

Not much going on so far this month. A quiet start- but the weeks ahead are anything but quiet.

Friday night we hung out at home with Aunt Jennifer and Haley. The girls played hard with Haley- but when Mommy and Aunt Jen started the True Blood movies- they went into read stories. Moose and Goose finally went to sleep around midnight. I would love to say that with such a late night for them- that they slept in nice and late Saturday morning. The little dears were up at daylight. They stayed busy during the day- we had a few places to run around to. We went to the mall- and they were sound asleep by 8:00.

Today the girls went to Chuckie Cheese for the first time- Mommy went to Chuckie Cheese for the first time as well. It was an experience. We went to Elena's 4th birthday party. The Moose and Goose had a great time. They would get a token- run play a game- and then run back for another token. I took them on different "rides" and of course the main rat (there is no chance Walt Disney had anything to do with Chucky Cheese) came out to do birthday stuff.

It was fun- and I was happy to see Maria, Elena and the boys. We don't get to spend nearly enough time together.

After Elena's party- we went home and watched the Super Bowl- the Ogre had his girlfriend over to watch. Tanya and the Ogre played with the girls until they went to bed- and then watched the game. Ogre was cheering on the Colts- and sorry for him- but the Saints won. I was happy- they were my team for the night.

It was a late night for me- and I am now exhausted - but fingers are crossed for a good nights sleep.

Seems as if time just speeds by on the weekends- and the weeks are flying by. Next weekend- Chinese New Year and Valentine's Day

Pictures of the Zoo

2010-02-07T20:50:00.006-05:00

Moose and Goose- Hanging out at Disney

Hi!!!!

Moose wanted to know- who is that lady in the Mulan costume???

She told me- it looks like Mulan- but that is not her Mommy!

You take them to part of the Disney resort- and they play with leaves

Sophie, Moose, Goose, and Ava- (Sophie and Ava are my friend- Val's daughters)

4 girls

3 Mommies- and wonderful memories

Love this picture of them all

Moose and Sophie are from the same orphanage- some mighty beautiful girls from that area of China.

Almost a cute picture

This one is better

Hanging with the duck!!!

Strawberry Shortcake

You need a napkin Moose

Great Grandma holding the Moose

In our winter best. The girls don't have a lot of cold weather clothing. This is them all bundled for the weeks of freezing temps we had. I know I will be hard pressed to ever leave the Sunshine State -

January 2010-

2010-01-31T16:16:00.000-05:00

What I hate about waiting so long to blog- is forgetting all the things that we have done- and it has been a lot.

January was a very busy month-
New Years Eve- we spent at Downtown Disney with Dawn, Curtis, and Tj. They wanted to get their Disney passes before the special was over (15 months for the price of 12). We had dinner at the Earl of Sandwich and the girls got to see Goofy.
New Years Day- it was nice to have the day off- but it was spent running around. Stuff to return- and things to purchase. As we drove by the Artsy Abode- we noticed that they sold Pandora jewelry and I was able to get the clips for my bracelet. I am going to love filling the bracelet with the charms.
As were in the parking lot- trying to determine where to go next- my friend Kelly T called. She needed directions to the local doctor's office- and we drove over to see her and Shelby. Holding Shelby was just like holding the Moose. She is just a little bit older than Moose was when she came home- and so cute. I did not however- feel the over whelming desire to fill out an adoption application- my diaper days are behind me and now we are moving on to sight words and handwriting.
Saturday started out as a nice quiet day- but as Jim and I got ready to run out and do the grocery shopping and finish the errands that did not get done the day before- he asked me when I was going to take the Goose to the doctor. She had been running a fever on and off for a couple of days- it just seemed to get worse that morning. I told him after her nap- but he told me to go look at her. She was just lying in the bed- eyes wide open- looking miserable. Her skin was flushed, temp was sky high, she had a nasty wet cough, and just looked "icky". Packed her up and headed to the doctor's office. (Love the office- walk in hours on weekends an holidays- ensure my kids get seen by someone who knows how kids work). Cynthia was the NP on duty and the diagnosis was pneumonia and ear infections. Off to the pharmacy to pick up the albuterol and antibiotics. As I am walking into Home Depot (gotta love the 2 hour wait for medications at Walgreen's) I called my Mom- only to be told that my Dad is being admitted to the hospital for - that's right- you guessed it- pneumonia. I think the Goose and Poppy are sharing the straw in the diet coke.

Kept Goose home on Monday and Tuesday her fever broke- and she felt better so she went back to school on Wednesday. It was the Ogre's last week off for Christmas break- and he was glued to his TV and computer. It was sad to see the Goose get so tired - so quickly. Moose was more than happy to pick up the slack.

The week was freezing. The girls had 3 pairs of jeans. Two of those pairs are very light weight. Even their "heavy" jeans are from Children's Place and not what I would call "heavy". I managed to get them so cute pink cords- and boots on sale. They were able to dress warm all week. This freezing cold is for the birds. I would like to know where "global warming " is.

On the 16th- while Donnie, Jim and Ogre started ripping up the carpet and putting down the tile- my Mom and I took the girls to see Great Grandma at the skilled nursing facility. She is doing so much better here- the Physical therapy at the facility is top notch and she is gaining strength every day. For 99 years 10 months she is doing great. The girls had a great time charming the staff and eating ice cream. Aunt Eddie Sue came to see Great Grandma and to see the girls and brought them Hello Kitty PJ's.

Knowing what an absolute dusty mess putting tile down is- the Moose, Goose and I stayed at Grandma's and Poppy's house. Apparently the late nights and holiday cheer caught up with me- because I crashed about the same time my little girls did. Of course the Moose wanted me in bed with her and Goose- so the three of us slept like sardines in the bed. Those little jewels- move around a lot.

Up bright and early (because Moose always is) and we got ready to go to EPCOT. It was the first beautiful- not cold day we had in a few weeks. I did not have the stroller- so the girls walked the entire EPCOT park. Front gate- all the way around the World Showcase - and back to the car. Needless to say we had two very tired little girls. They managed to stay awake on the way home- but they crashed hard once they were in Pj's and ready for bed.

Jim was tired of "honey do's" so on the 23rd- he and I took the girls to Animal Kingdom and the Magic Kingdom. They had so much fun. We were able to see practically every animal at the kingdom on the safari ride. They were out - and posing. The girls also had a great time watching the Lion King show. Moose walked around all day calling "Valerie"- because I told her that Valerie was there with her family and we were going to meet them the next day.
Since the girls asked to go on "Pirates" - and I like to tell them yes- we left AK and headed to the Magic Kingdom. It must was such a slow day there- we were able to ride everything the girls wanted to, watch the parade and the fireworks- and head home by 9pm. It was great!!!! The girls are now asking for rides- and have figured out the different parks. Magic Kingdom is still "Disney World".
That Sunday- My Mom and I took my little zoo members to Downtown Disney to meet up with Valerie and her crew. She has 5 amazing kids. Sophie and Ava are from China, Sophie is from the same orphanage that Moose is from. The four girls loved playing together- and found fun in the simplest things- playing with leaves, playing tag, and holding hands while they walked through the village. People stopped and starred- and rightly so- Each of those girls are gorgeous alone- but the four of them together. Valerie and I are very lucky Mommies indeed.

The last weekend of the month was spent with family on Saturday- my cousin Donnie and his son- Mark- came over for the day. Donnie has done all of the tile in our house and he came to finish the kitchen island. Mark and Ogre spent the day playing video games.
On Sunday - the Ogre asked to go to (and I shudder as I type this) Universal. I am a very open minded person- so cross theme park dating doesn't bother me- but it is hard to realize that your baby boy is going to be a Universal person.
Grandma joined the rest of us- for a "magical" day at the Magic Kingdom- where the girls once again soared in the air on the back of an elephant (Dumbo), chased the witch away with Dopey and the dwarfs, and sang "Yo Ho, Yo Ho, A pirates life for me" - and Moose was able to point out Captain Jack Sparrow (she has NOT seen the movie- Disney has great marketing).
Two little girls were so very tired- Moose was asleep as soon as she was buckled in her car seat- and Goose was not far behind. I would love to say they slept through the night- and I was able to sleep in my bed- without help from the Moose. She was in bed with me just after midnight- and I had share my pillow.
I am posting this tonight- and will get the pictures up tomorrow- and there are pictures- many, many pictures.

Happy New Year!

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These are not the fireworks we saw

Climbing with a pirate

Goofy (Goopy is what Goose calls him)

TJ and Moose-

Ride that horse

Flowers

Have your tried to take a picture of three girls- looking in the same direction-with great smiles-

I couldn't do it- I need an SLR- so that I can take lots of pictures and cut the heads off and paste on others

Playing around

Happy New Year!!!!!

I had to work today- I was able to close the office at 3pm. I came home and got the girls ready to go to Downtown Disney. We met Dawn, Curtis and TJ - and off we went. The Moose and Goose were very excited to go- we are not able to go to the parks until next weekend- and they have been asking regularly if we can go to Disney.

Dawn and her gang wanted to buy their passes for this year- and New Years Eve was the last day to buy them and get the extra 3 months.

The night was all about the girls- hey when you are 3 and 4- you don't ring in the New Year- you ring in 10pm.

While Dawn and Curtis waited in line-we let the girls play outside- and Ogre chased them around in circles. The 3 girls had a special treat- Goofy was walking in for his break- but stopped to say hi, and give them each a hug- although Mommy was a little slow on the uptake when it came to grabbing the camera and getting the pictures. The nice lady at the Photo shop gave the girls stickers- and then gave them all extras to give to Goofy later.

We had dinner at the Earl of Sandwich-and again we were blessed to find a table right in front of the action- great music playing- so the girls were able to dance while the adults sat around and talked after dinner.

There is a small Merry -Go Round at DTD- and we took the girls. Any child under 42" has to have an adult with them- so Dawn stood next to Goose, while I took Moose and TJ in the tea cup. It is just like the tea cup ride- and we spun round and round- fast. I was cheered on by waiting parents to keep up the speed- and I think the operator kept the ride going until I slowed down- but that is what the Zoo wanted.

We headed down to see Goofy- and stood in line for about 15 minutes- but the girls got to see him, give him a Mickey sticker (Goofy wants to know why he doesn't have his own stickers) Goose wanted to give Goofy a kiss on his nose- but Goofy could not bend down low enough for her to do it.

We took a train ride and had ice cream at Ghirardelli (it is a tradition) and then Mommy and Dawn left the boys in charge while we went in and did a little shopping at the World of Disney store. Passholders get 20% off right now and I wanted a charm for my bracelet and Dawn picked out a new watch (gotta celebrate becoming a passholder)

We said goodbye to our Zoo affiliates and headed home around 10. Moose was asleep before I had even backed out of the parking place. Goose managed to stay awake all the way home- but once she was in bed she was out.

Ogre and I went outside and watched our neighbors light up the night sky with some fireworks. Rob buys a lot (he really needs to consider a job in pyrotechnics) and besides the stuff that goes up - he had quite a few fire crackers and shared with the Ogre.

We came in- and I don't think I had been inside for 10 minutes when the skies opened up- and the rain began. It rained all night and most of this morning.

We did get the tree down, the decorations put away, and most of the family room cleaned up. My cousin Donnie came over to measure the house for tile- and a quick BBQ. We watched the Gators and Tim Tebow win the Sugar Bowl.

My job for tonight was to start the year off with a blog post and pictures.

No New Year Resolutions yet- but will have some. Please share yours- maybe it will inspire me.

We at Notes From the Zookeeper would like to send warm wishes, blessings, and lots of love to Justin and Judy- the son and soon to be daughter in law of my friend Lori at http://www.stressisthenewblack.blogspot.com/ They are getting married on 1/2/2010.

We wish you well in your new life together.

Happy New Year to all my friends and family!

Christmas Day

2009-12-27T21:24:00.011-05:00

We looked at these for a long time at Sam's Club- they clearanced them out- on the day I was there

Moose- American Idol- season 30

A girl should be able to play a musical instrument

Sing it Moose

Goose is going to take this part

Castle

Bubble machines from Uncle Bobby- it rained a bit in the morning- so we played with them inside-

Uncle Bobby and Savannah

Moose taking a break- still doing nebulizer treatments- 3x a day. The Xopenex makes her hyper.

He asked for it- really.

Smiles- it's a "video game"- and she asked Santa for one

Goose loves her puzzles- so much happy

Stockings are the best!

Ogre's own printer paper- the girls use mine for coloring

That is some serious tape-

4 Wheeler fun

I was sure that the girls would be up before daylight- Moose is always awake when the first ray of light shows in her room, and Goose was excited (she was not sure why she was excited- but she was excited) My Mom spent the night, but my Dad and Bobby were coming over at 6ish so they could be there when the kids got up.

I fell asleep on the couch- and Goose ended up with me around 4am. I was surprised that she did not wake anyone up- she just curled up with me and went back to sleep.

Daddy and Bobby had to ring the door bell to wake me up- the bell did not wake up the kids. I let them in- turned on a couple of lights- Jim woke up, got my Mom up, The girls were still not awake. Jim made coffee- we talked (Goose was still on the couch) I finally went in and started talking to Moose- I told her it was Christmas morning- Merry Christmas. She sat in my lap, did not open her eyes. I told her that Santa Claus had been here and had left her present and did she want to go see- with that her eyes popped open, she slid down off my lap and ran into the family room. Goose took a few minutes to wake up as well- but once they were both awake- the fun was on.

They were so excited about the 4 wheelers- they jumped on them and were riding around the family room - through the presents- around the kitchen -and in circles.

Goose recognizes her name- and would bring every present to me - "this is mine" or "this is Moose or this is my Moose"- for confirmation. She is beginning to recognize the Ogre's name as well.

Moose had asked for a computer, a camera, a video game, and a cell phone- so when she opened the V-tech computer (Pink) she was thrilled. Goose had not asked for anything special- but loved the play doh table. The Castle was her biggest surprise. While at any of the Disney gift shops she would stand and stare at it- she would look at all 4 sides of the box- and tell you to "Look-look".

The Ogre had asked for video games- and was very happy to have received all of the games on his list -even the two that he thought I wouldn't find. (lucky for me-and him- he is great and doesn't mind if I buy games at Game Stop when they do the buy two get one free sale)

My Dad was thrilled with his Zookeeper CEO shirt, and Jim was shocked to find out that the jacket I had him try on to see if it would fit the Ogre- was actually for him.

After breakfast- and some cleaning up- the girls were convinced to go down for a nap (I lie- they did not want to go- but exhaustion won out) and I started to make cakes, brownies and Mac&Cheese (it's a veggie here in the South) we finally got on the road to Aunt Eddie Sue's house.

Dinner with the entire family-it was great- we opted out of the traditional turkey dinner and had steaks, baked potatoes, salad, Mac & Cheese, and broccoli casserole for dinner. Chocolate cake, pineapple cake, apple pie, berry pie, pumpkin pie, and pecan pie for dessert.

It was wonderful evening- my Grandmother was able to come for the day- and bitter sweet because we know that the number of Christmas's spent with her is becoming a smaller number. The girls love to see her- and she loves to watch them play. David and Donnie made it over, Taylor and Blake were home from U of F- and along with Chris, Jenny, little Chris, and other friends - we were 22 people- coming together to celebrate the day Jesus was born.

Family and friends together- makes it a great Christmas day!

Christmas Eve

2009-12-24T20:15:00.000-05:00

Excited Girls on Christmas eve

I Saw Haley Flashing Santa Claus- at Downtown Disney Christmas Eve

Goose is all smiles- Haley is thinking "the things I do for my Aunt

Moose is smiles, Goose - not sure what that look is-

Uh oh- am I going to be on the nice list

Christmas smiles

Christmas Eve has always been fun- when we first moved into our house- we have always stayed home- my Mom, Dad, and Grandmother would come stay the night- we would have dinner, read the Christmas story and Twas the Night Before Christmas -get the little heathens to bed- and spend a couple of hours getting things ready for Christmas morning.

This year- my Grandmother was not able to spend the night here- and my Dad was going to come up Christmas morning with my brother, and my Mom was coming over later- so Jim, Moose, Goose, Aunt Jen, Haley, and I decided to go to Downtown Disney for the evening. It was chilly- but not cold, no rain- and really "Christmas weather" in Florida.

Since I did not get out of work until 3pm- I came back to the house to get Jim, Aunt Jen, Haley and Grandma Lyn(Jen's mom) - the Ogre wanted to stay home. We went to Grandma's house to pick up the Moose and Goose- two very excited little girls.

When we got to Grandma's- I gave the girls their Christmas present from their elf- Mingshu- and they were so excited to see their new night gowns. Aunt Jen let them open her Christmas presents from her and Haley- and they jingled bells and played recorders.

We took the back way to Downtown Disney- and there was no traffic - we pulled into the full parking lot- and got a front row parking place- (that alone was a Christmas present)

We had dinner at the Earl of Sandwich (best sandwich place on Disney property) -the girls ate salad and jello- Aunt Jen tried to get Moose to eat fruit with her jello- so every bite had to be inspected for fruit.

The Head Elf himself was at Downtown Disney- just in case you had not had the chance to sit down with him yet- and this Santa is so "real" that I myself wanted to sit down and ask for a Sony Reader. The girls asked to go see him again- so we got in line while Jim went into the World of Disney store for shopping. Moose gave her request for a computer again- while Goose just sat and looked at him- and Haley- well -she very sweetly posed for pictures.

After wandering around one of the shops (lots of pretty glass) we headed to Ghirardelli for ice cream. It was yummy- but since I had presents to wrap and breakfast to make- we had to cut the evening short and go home.

Moose was so excited- and so tired- that she fell asleep in the car and even when we got home- I was able to change her from jeans to jammies. Goose was awake- but Jim whispered in her ear that Santa could not come until she was asleep- and that combined with sheer exhaustion- won the battle with staying awake- and she was out in minutes.

I had wrapped most of the big stuff- but had to wrap little things. We don't put any presents under the tree until after the kids go to bed- and there are eight people at my house Christmas morning. Lots of presents to put under the tree and stockings to stuff.

We did not put cookies out for Santa Claus- the kids were already sleeping- so we skipped it this year-

I make Creme Brule French Toast for Christmas morning- and it has to be refridgerated for at least 8 hours- so I put that together- and yes- I got on Facebook before finally going to bed.

The Christmas Present Moose Didn't Ask for

2009-12-20T20:45:00.000-05:00

Took Moose to the doctor today- she was running a low grade fever- but she had a very wet, deep, non- productive cough. It sounded pretty nasty. I love our ped's office. The staff is great- they have a walk in clinic after hours and weekends. She does not act sick - she has these tremendous bouts of energy- and then she just drops

The Moose was not acting sick so much as sounding sick. The nurse practitioner was very sweet and she walked in- first thing she said was "oh- she just doesn't look good does she". This lady - loves both girls- but likes to listen to the Moose's lungs- because Moose giggles and laughs at this. She had her blow out the light- and listened to her lungs. She asked me if we had a nebulizer machine at home- we didn't - but we do now.

She got a "nemo" mask- and she was real good about the breathing treatment- she is now getting them 3x a day for a couple of weeks.

When we first walked in she told the receptionist- " I don't want a shot"- she smiled and said "OK"- she told the nurse - " I don't want a shot- ok"- and the nurse told her "No shots". As soon as the nurse practitioner walked in she told her- I don't want a shot"- the NP told her- "No shots today-" Thank heaven - she did not need a shot tonight.

The final diagnosis- Bronchitis and reactive airway disease- finger crossed that it does not develop into asthma.

Monkey King and Santa Claus

2009-12-20T00:52:00.006-05:00

We are pass holders to Disney. (shocked to find that out I know) and while an annual pass would be nice- we are seasonal pass holders. So we have black out dates- and ours start 12/19. So today- after Moose and Goose had their Christmas parties at school and I did what needed to be done-we loaded up with the Ogre, Grandma and Poppy - and headed to Downtown Disney to do some shopping- and then to EPCOT to see Mulan.

The weather was damp- but it did not dampen our spirits. We wanted to get the girls a Castle for Christmas. It is a doll house- and it comes with a Cinderella, Jasmine, Ariel, Sleeping Beauty, Belle, and their Princes. Goose stares at the box every time we walk into a Disney Store- so I am thinking it is going to be a big hit- but we will see. Grandma got them some bubble guns- which is another thing they have been wanting for a while.

We stood in line for about 1o minutes to see Santa Claus. Moose was so excited, dancing around, hopping from foot to foot. Goose was a little more reserved. When we were next- Moose stood right in front -just waiting to go, Goose stood behind the pole - peaking around it to see him. As soon as I told them it was their turn- Goose pushed past Moose and launched herself at Santa Claus. No fear at all. Moose was great and told Santa what she wanted (a computer, cell phone, camera and video game) Goose just sat and stared at him.

We headed to EPCOT- and went straight to China. Unfortunately - Mulan was off trying to keep Mushu out of trouble and we did not get to see her. We did get to see the Monkey King. A cultural figure in China- the girls have seen him in "Big Bird goes to China and in a Kai Lan episode. They were super excited to see him "in person" We had to wait about 20 minutes to see him- but they danced and played while we waited. They sat down when he came out and watched him- the only time Goose took her eyes off of him was to tell me- "the Monkey King is here".

We finished up the night with some shopping at Mouse Gear. Ogre did some shopping for the people on his list- and I am pretty sure I know what I am going to be putting on my list.

Moose and Goose feel asleep in the store- and didn't wake up when we changed them into their jammies- or when I finally got home and put them to bed.

Visions of sugar plums dancing in their heads!

One Busy Weekend!

2009-12-14T06:15:00.008-05:00

Checking out the Christmas Train while visiting Great Grandma

Moose and her Soldier

May I have this dance?

What a smile!

Sitting with Great Grandma

Don't fall in Goose

Ogre with his Great Grandma

I told my Grandma to smile so I could take her picture- she didn't hear me and Moose told her "NO Great Grandma- that's not a smile- you smile like this"

Goose and Great Grandma

Goose pushing the wheel chair- the ramp up was a little difficult

She did not like it when I told her Ge Ge had to help push the chair up the ramp

Moose's class getting ready to sing

This little boy tells his Grandma and Mommy- that Moose is his girlfriend

Sisterly love

Moose, Adriana, Mia and Goose

The girls with Miss Tatiana

Not sure what that smile is Goose

This weekend was full of things to do- and the girls had a great time doing them.

On Saturday - Jim's company had their Christmas party. In early November they sent home the suggestions and let the staff vote. Wonderworks for the family won- so we packed up the Zoo and off we went to International drive to play for the day.

Wonderworks is pretty neat- not sure if it is really for little people- but the girls did have a good time. Ogre said "it was awesome". The first room is the "natural disaster" room. There is a "hurricane room" that simulates a bad tropical storm. The girls loved that- putting on the safety glasses and letting the wind blow them back. They say it goes 65 miles an hour. There is also an "earthquake room" The girls really loved this- they kept going back this room over and over again. (I'm thinking they wouldn't like the real deal very much) Ogre and Jim stuck their hands in the Titanic water- to see who could hold out the longest - Ogre beat us all- and kept his hand in the freezing water for 75 seconds.

The next floor up- had a "bubble room"- with bubble wands that would let you make bubbles big enough to put the girls in. We played for a very long time. There was a Bed of Nails - you lay down on a sheet of plexi-glass and they lower the glass so that the nails come through. Jim, Ogre and I did this- not my favorite. There was a game to see who could move a ball with their mind. The object being to clear your mind and let your brain waves do the work. Ogre beat me- his mind must be empty. Video games - a digital air hockey game, and lots of Wii type things.

The girls loved the "dance room"- they would dance and see their shadows pop up in all different colors. They played for about an hour in the dance room.

The comedy show was great- was not expecting much- and was surprised at how good he was. Comedy/magic. He brought Jim up on the stage- and every time he walked by him would start singing (like Stewie from SNL) "jimmy crack corn"

We left around 10ish- and the girls were asleep before we left the parking garage. They were exhausted. I would love to say that the late hour of their bedtime translated into sleeping in late- but sadly- they were up as soon as the sun peeked through the blinds.

I got them up and dressed- and we went to visit Great Grandma at the skilled rehab center. Grandma was with her- so we ate lunch with Great Grandma, listened to the Christmas Carolers and then we were off to take Great Grandma out for a walk around the grounds. We sat down at the lake for a while. Goose wanted to push the Great Grandma in the wheel chair and was not a happy camper when she couldn't push her up the ramp. She showed us her spicy side.

Wednesday and Thursday the girls each had their Christmas show. The pre-school is in a Jewish Synagogue- and the parking lot is kind of small- as is the room where they do the show. They decided to have the 2/3 year olds together and the 4 year olds on a seperate night. Goose did great this year- she sang her songs and did all of her hand gestures. Moose was in her element - and had a great time singing and being on stage.

Moose will sing in the car- all of the time. Her current favorites include "You Are My Sunshine" and "Froggy the Snowman". She loves the part in You are My Sunshine - "when skys are Gray"

the Goose will sing "when skys are Moose" Wanting to get that one on video soon.

Christmas is coming fast- and every day is packed with things to get done - but it is a great time of year.

Goose likes Eric

2009-12-07T23:08:00.005-05:00

The Object of Goose's affection

Tonight we were reading our bedtime stories. Moose's favorite book is " The Very Hungry Caterpillar"- we read it several times a week. Goose has a selection of Princess books that came from Dollar Tree. She carries them with her everywhere- and tonight it was Ariel that got picked.
The girls love to watch the Little Mermaid- and they LOVE- Erik. Tonight while I was being interrogated- um- I mean questioned about different things in the book -Moose asked me about Ariel's veil, her bouquet of flowers, why she tossed the bouquet- and many, many more.
Moose asked me what Ariel was saying to Erik's statue- and I said "OH- Erik, I looooove you so!" - Moose gigged.
Moose wanted to know if Eric was Ariel's boyfriend. I told her yes- and asked her if she had a boyfriend. She thought about it for a few minutes and said OK.
She asked why they were getting married- and we talked about why people get married. I told them that Ariel loves Eric - and Goose piped in with " I like Eric -Mommy"

I told them that boys have cooties.

December is starting with a Bang!

2009-12-06T00:54:00.002-05:00

Tuesday- my Grandmother fell. She fractured her wrist. So this week my Mom and my Aunt have been spending a lot of time at the hospital (12-20 hours a day). The doctor recommended surgery on her wrist to surgically "fix" it. Surgery went great- and the surgeon even said he was surprised at how strong my Grandmother's bones were. I believe that one day the AMA will decide that bacon grease and fried cornbread is the key to strong bones.

Moose and Goose got an early Christmas present- they got an Elf on the Shelf -(http://www.elfontheshelf.com). It is a brilliant idea. The story brings an elf to your family to watch the children and report back to Santa. He (or she) flies back to the North Pole Evey night to tell Santa who has been naughty or nice. He lands in a different place each morning- and the kids are supposed to find him. It comes with an elf- you name your elf, and then go to the web site and register his name, print a letter from Santa, and get an adoption certificate.
The girls have loved this- we read the story every night and the girls could not wait to name him. Our elf's name is MingShu- and why his name does not make the the top 20 list on the web site- the girls love it. They get out of bed every morning and can't wait to go find him. If the girls are not listening as carefully as they should- a quick "where is MingShu??" reminds them.

Fingers crossed for a quick trip to Hollywood Studios this weekend- and we are going to hit Downtown Disney for Christmas shopping on Monday night. The Moose, Goose and Ogre have Christmas shirts that should be done on Wednesday- and then I hope to get their pictures taken.
Lets hope the rest of the month runs just a little bit smoother than the first week.

Holiday Weekend

2009-12-04T21:43:00.006-05:00

A hidden Mickey

Playing in the "snow" at Hollywood Studio's

Christmas Tree - over 70,000 lights

Here comes Santa Claus

It is quiet a Spectacle

My little Zoo

Frozen Cokes

big smiles

Love your sister

Not sure what caught the Goose's attention

Smiles

What is blooming in Hollywood Studio's

A little Handy Manny

The weekend was busy- Saturday -I was able to shop with my Mom, the girls, and Ogre. We hit Macy's, Aeropostle, and a few other stores in the mall. I did get a few people -including the Ogre- crossed of my list.

We did not go to Disney on Saturday- but Sunday after the grocery shopping was done- the Zoo(minus Ogre) headed to Hollywood Studios to check out the lights. The Moose and Goose wanted to see Ariel - so we watched the Little Mermaid - Goose is getting much better. She has always watched it- but there was some head burying during some parts. Now she just sits on someones lap and occasionally there is a death grip- but she still wants to go.

We had dinner at one of the outdoor restaurants -the girls had pizza and salad -heavy on the salad, light on the pizza.

We headed over to the streets of America to see the lights. I wanted to see the girls faces when they came on. It is spectacular to see the buildings without the lights- and then to see the buildings light up.

The Moose and Goose loved it, pointing to the Christmas tree, the angels, and Mommy got to find three hidden Mickeys.

We hope to make it out to the parks at least twice more during the holiday season.

Thanksgiving

2009-11-27T20:18:00.005-05:00

The Leading Lady

"We All" is in the country

Gary and Moose - who do you think the bow looks better on???

Theres a little girl- in our neighborhood- Just a Swingin

Hello Moosey

If I'm on my tip toes- I can get on this swing by myself

This way is fine

Big Grins- from Goose

So serious

Ogre and Tyler

Blake and David

"Mommy- I am so happy"

Little Chris, Moose and Goose

This is a picture of my Grandmother- on her 95th birthday- on her Harley

This is Grandmother- (top center) my Aunt Tine and Aunt Candy on either side of her

Second Row- is my Uncle Bill, the Neeld family, and Uncle Bob

Third Row- Aunt Bertha, Uncle Hilton, and we don't have a picture of Miller

The girls are not to sure of the deer on the wall

The Zoo- hanging out

Thanksgiving was a great day! I started off early- by going to K-Mart for the sale. I didn't get everything I wanted- but I did get each of the girls a little Princess camera. They were 2 for $20. I don't think they will be taking the picture that will grace the cover of TIME- but Moose asked for a camera.

I made the Mac&Cheese and a cake for Thanksgiving dinner (nothing that will test my very meager culinary skills) we loaded up and headed out. The drive over to the "WEALL" is about 2 hours or so- and Goose fell asleep and had a good nap. Moose was wired for sound the entire way. "Are we there?"- was asked more times than I can count.

Thanksgiving is always nice- and this year was great. My Grandmother's youngest brother came down from Georgia with his wife and one of my cousins. My cousins Donnie and David were there- and it's always great to see them. ( made even nicer because David said I could use his condo in the Keys for an all girls weekend)

Ogre was able to play with his cousins all in and around the woods- he even stopped to eat this year. The Moose and Goose ran between one "camp" and the WEALL for hours. Never out of eye sight- but they felt like they were getting away with something.

My Grandmother sat on the porch- and surveyed her family and took it all in.

I was so busy talking - that I did not take a lot of pictures- but did manage to get a few.

I had to work today ( and I love black Friday shopping) so did not get to enter the crazy mess that it is.

It's coming

2009-11-26T21:15:00.001-05:00

Pictures of Thanksgiving and updates coming soon!

Happy Thanksgiving

2009-11-25T23:04:00.003-05:00

The Zoo Crew will be spending Thanksgiving in the wild. In a little town on the west coast of Florida- my Grandmother and her brothers and sisters grew up in a small house. That house is still standing- and "we all" go there for Thanksgiving.
I have fond memories of going to the "Weall" from when I was a little girl. We all had so much fun playing in the woods, building fires and roasting marshmellows, and generally behaving like wild indians.
There are anywhere from 50-100 people that show up for Thanksgiving lunch. Everyone brings food- there are no sign up sheets so you never know what your going to get. ( I think one year we had no turkey) We eat on a long screened in porch, at picnic tables, and with plates balanced in laps. The kids barely stop to eat- there are to many bugs to catch, paths to explore, and dirt to get covered in. Clean up is a breeze- because we use only the finest paper plates and plastic ware - sometimes we even manage to get matching paper napkins. It's not fancy, but it is down home- and it is all about family. We don't see most of these relatives very often- usually just at Thanksgiving and our annual family reunion. (sometimes that is good- who wants to see them- and sometimes they are people we miss)
This year- Thanksgiving is very special. My Grandmother- is 99 years old, she missed the family reunion this year- and she loves seeing her family. She fell last month- and it has been a hard recovery for her - so having her here is extra special.
This year- Moose knows it's going to be fun, and Goose still isn't quite sure- but if Moose is excited it must be good. Goose had only been home 10 months last Thanksgiving- and all those people were a little overwhelming - this year I think she will be OK with all the people.

The Zoo wishes you and your family a very safe and Happy Thanksgiving. May you spend it with the people you love the most- and make memories to last a lifetime!

My Son is such a teenager

2009-11-23T21:22:00.003-05:00

The Ogre is 16- he is spending the first half of Thanksgiving break with Grandma. I called over there to talk to my Mom - check in on the Moose and talk about Christmas. Ogre answers the phone- we talk- and then I ask to talk to Grandma. He says "Oh- she is not here- she is at the hospital with Great Grandma- her hips are broken. I called my Mom on her cell phone- and -NO- Great Grandma's hips are not broken(she fell about 1.5 months ago) but she is still having pain from her fall - and they were going to take her to the doctor. So the pure dread and heart break that rushed through me when my darling thoughtful son told me that my Grandmother broke her hips. Now to be completely honest-my son was only doing what he thought was right. I asked a question- and he answered it. He didn't think about breaking it gently- or how freaked I might be.

Gotta love him!

Getting back to Normal

2009-11-22T23:06:00.006-05:00

The Zoo- Moose, Goose and Ogre

Practicing the Power Ranger moves

Hugs

Sisters

More Pictures

I'm a little Teapot- short and ...

In Case of Noise- cover ears

Beautiful Goose

Moose is all Smiles

Introducing the Purple Power Rangers

Posing with the Pink Power Ranger

Learning the pose

Ogre "getting down" with MS&S

there was Elvis, Madonna, and now there is Ogre

Dancing to the beat

Ogre is a great brother- putting the Moose's shoe on- so the dancing can continue

Say Cheese

I am terrible at blogging daily. I just don't know how my friend Lori does it. (http://www.stressisthenewblack.blogspot.com/) she has blogged daily the month of November. I however have not.

We had our fall garage sale at my Mom's house- and have enough stuff left over that we are planning on doing one at my house soon. We have done some deep cleaning- and throwing away of stuff. Still planning on getting rid of more.

Moose was not able to go to school last week- so she spent the week with Grandma. They went to the mall a couple times and the girl does like to shop. She was greatly upset on Tuesday when I called- she told me "Mommy, the peoples made me so sad" I asked her why and she told me - "they told me I was cute!".

My Mom told me that she got tired- asked to be picked up and put her head down on my Mom's shoulder and told her- "I'm tired of being cute- can we go home now"

Daddy went to visit a couple of times- and Mommy, Goose, and Ogre went up to visit one night. She was very happy to come home on Friday- and on Saturday the Moose and Goose had to rediscover the joy of sharing.

Saturday- we did some major cleaning and tossing and donating. We have a lot of stuff to go to goodwill and we threw out much more. Time to get it out before the holidays- My Mom and I took the girls and went shopping for curtains- but did not find any that I just had to have. I will keep looking.

We had a "potty shirt" scare. Potty shirt is the one of my Dad's flannel shirts. When Moose was about 2 years old she called my Dad -Potty (just could not say Poppy)and she acquired one of his shirts- she would not give it back to him. Last weekend we packed up her things for the week- and the bag with Potty's shirt got misplaced. We could not find it anywhere. She has asked for it- and she did fine without it- but it was wonderful joy today when we found it. Happy days.

Today we went to Hollywood Studios to see the Christmas lights ( I know it's not Thanksgiving yet) Today is the one day they are not having Christmas lights. It was still a great afternoon. The girls and Ogre got to "rock out" to Mulch, Sweat, and Shears"- and then we able to see the Power Rangers. The last time we saw them- they missed Pink Power Ranger and Moose told me today - Pink Power Ranger is my favorite. (Funny- because she has no idea who the Power Rangers are)

We ended the evening with Fantasmic. - If you have never watched this show- it's great. Fireworks (not many) but the characters and movie clips are great. Goose would cover her ears with my hands- pull them away when she wanted to hear something- then cover them back when she was done listening. Ogre asked her if she liked it and she said yes- then he asked her if she wanted to watch it again and she said "NO!"

Dropped Moose and Ogre off with Grandma- no school for Ogre this week. I told him I was surprised that he had the entire week off for Thanksgiving and I thought he would get out Wednesday. He scoffed at the idea of only having 2 days of for Thanksgiving. I laughed and told him that's how it was in the "old days". Moose will be out of school this week as well. Her follow up in on Tuesday with Dr. Bean and there is no VPK this week. I know she will be happy to go back.

It is going to be a quiet week with only one child in the house.

Racism - You Can't Fix Stupid

2009-11-15T22:42:00.003-05:00

One of the things that need to be addressed when you adopt trans-racially is racism. I want to raise my daughters to stand up for themselves- but I don't want them looking for racism or to think that everytime someone says something it is racially motivated.
I am blessed- my family has been overwhelmingly supportive of our adoption- and like us- adore the Moose and the Goose. Like all families- there are one or two that are not - but they don't dare say anything. Most of my friends are the same way- I know that one friend is not anymore- and it is her loss. I have no problems cutting people out of my life that are not healthy for my children to be around- it could be racial, it could be their morals or the company they keep- If it is not healthy- then they are not around my kids.
The question is how to handle it- so that the your children learn to handle these situations themselves, so that they learn that it is the other persons problem-not theirs. At 3 and 4 years old they don't get it- they are adored by everyone they know- so it doesn't occur to them that someone may not like them.
When a friend's husband called my daughter a racially derogatory term- we left. It was not my home, my daugther was sleeping. I know who he had to explain it to when we left- and I feel confident that it would not happen again. Not a problem for me- he won't see my girls- and I think he is an ass.
When we got the dirty looks and pointed stares -a stare back and "do you have a problem?" worked. I try to be direct- but you have to weigh direct with safe.

The most recent- at a fall festival this year- I was walking ahead of my Mom and the girls and a young black man said "oh look- ching chong chong ping". My Mom asked him if he thought he was being funny- and he said "yeah". She told me and I felt the blood boil. I thought about it for a full minute- and I verified who said it and I walked back. I asked him if he thought he was being funny- and he got defensive. I told him" saying that to my daughters is just as offensive as if I called you a (insert racially derogatory term here) and it would serve you well to remember that the next time you want to be funny" He apologized- and I walked away shaking- angrier than I have ever been.

I thought about this tonight - because a dear friend was at McDonald's with her daughter and husband today- and some kids (19/20 years old she said) were looking at them and she heard them say
"found in a basket with a note that said bring me back when you are tired of me"

she said she was speechless- almost in shock at someone saying that. I would have been to. I was speechless when the idiot at the fall festival said what he said- it took me a full minute or two to decide how to respond and really to respond.

The point of the rambling is how to respond or how to act. I don't know if facing it directly is the best option or not. It works for me, but my daughters are young- and they are not always present (or aware) of what is going on, but what about when they are older.

How do I teach them to respond- to empower them to handle these situations when I am not there.

We talk about adoption openly- the girls know that they were adopted - and that adoption is how some children join their families. We have brought up birth mothers, being found, and orphanages.

How do you talk to them about rasism- about how people are stupid. We talk about being Chinese- and both Moose and Goose will say "I'm Chinese" - they will tell you they are from China- and Florida. At 3 and 4 - they are proud to be American and Chinese- and I want them to be proud. (Moose recently told me she was from China, Florida- and we were going to go there)

I want to teach them that "you can't fix stupid"- and I want to keep them from ever being hurt by stupid.

Not exactly

2009-11-14T22:35:00.003-05:00

No pictures today-

After Moose's surgery- we headed back to Grandma's house- where the doctor assured me-she would nap for the better part of the afternoon, rest quietly the rest of the time, go to bed early and sleep all night. -Grandma and I were going to get ready for the garage sale, go to be early, get up early, make lots of money- and have clean houses.
It all went according to plan- except for the napping, resting quietly, going to bed early- sleeping all night, ready for garage sale, clean house thing- we did make some money.

Moose napped briefly in the car- and then was up. Putting her eye drops in- takes 2-3 people. She is 28 pounds of squirm- she will take the chewable Tylenol.
We got 80% of the garage sale stuff out- priced and ready to go. The sale was slow starting- but we got rid of a lot of stuff. Baby clothing did not sell as well as I thought it would- but so much is gone. We are going to do it one more time- at my house. So last chance for me to get more stuff out. At least I can start with a clean house for the holiday season.

Moose was up at 3:30 am- yes- that's right- 3:30 am. She woke me up- "Mommy- Mommy"
Yes Moosey- "Mommy- I love you so much" It's so sweet- you can't even be upset that she woke you from a dead sleep. She then wanted potty time- so we went. She told me- " I love you two Mommies" and " I have 4"- I asked her 4 what????- " 4 feet- and then counted them all.

Double vision- no flames please- is hysterical. I feel bad for her- because she does get a little frustrated with trying to pick up stuff that is not there. It is funny when she asks the Mommy sitting next to me- "How are you today?" or tells us " I love you two Mommies" This is a common side effect- and I was assured that it will go away in a few days- (not by the same doctor who assured me she would nap and sleep all night)

My very modest Moose- has asked to look in the mirror several times- and when asked today what color her eyes where- she told me chocolate and red. She is a little concerned that the red will not go away. We talked to her about the red- and how Dr. Bean said that it will go away- and she needs to use her eye drops to help it go away- she told me "No Thank you- I already did the eye drops"- This evening it was a little better- and I hope that it becomes easier.

Moose is going to be out of school for at least 1 week- and maybe two. They explained if the stitches come loose- and the muscle is not attached- then they have to go in- look for the muscle and attach it again. I am opting to keep her under close(closer than school) supervision- and far away from playgrounds. We are even skipping the FCC picnic tomorrow- (we will miss you all)

Moose has come out of this with flying colors. She is a very confident little girl- she feels safe and loved- and faces every situation head on (except for food)-she had questions- processed the answers- and went in with a smile.

The Eyes Have it

2009-11-13T20:30:00.006-05:00

Moose had her surgery this morning. She is such a trooper. She asked a few questions on the way to pick up Grandma- and then a few more on the way to POPS (Pediatric Out Patient Surgery). Her main concern was if it was going to hurt or not. You hate to tell them No- because if it does- then they think your nuts, and you hate to tell them Yes- because you are not going to be able to get them to walk in the building. I told her that Dr. Bean would give her medication so that he could fix her eyes without it hurting.

The nurses were great! They came it an did her vitals- and the Goose's vitals. They talked to her and explained everything they were doing. We changed her into her lovely little hospital gown - and we talked to Dr. Gina (anesthesiologist) and then to Dr. Bean.

Amy (nurse) came in with some Versed and Tylenol for the Moose- she got real loopy- and started talking to them- she asked them where "Dr. Bean" was- and we had to explain to who Dr. Bean was- When they left to take the Moose down to the OR- they said- lets go get Dr. Bean's patient to him.

Since Moose could not eat or drink after midnight- we did not feed the Goose (or ourselves) until after they took Moose back. Moose was not out of the room 2 minutes- and Goose was into her apple slices, banana, and apple juice.
Goose was very good- asked "where's my Moose" about every 10 minutes- but she played with her coloring book and crayons, played with poster and markers, and did her puzzle as well.
We had just started to figure out how long she had been gone- when in walked Dr. Bean to tell us that it went well- they realigned her eye muscles and she should be back in about 30 minutes.
One hour later- they wheeled her back in- she opened her eyes just a bit- but went right back to sleep. We woke her up- and gave her a red Popsicle- then got her ready to leave.
That is when she asked " why are there two Daddies and two Grandma's)We expected some double vision- and it was funny to see her. She would try to talk to the "other Daddy or other Grandma" I was putting her in her car seat and she asked "how are you?"- I told her I was fine and she said- "Not you Mommy- the other Mommy"

The nice Dr. Gina told us that she would be quite sleepy today- and would not be active or want to do anything but sleep. She was wrong! The Moose came home- and was ready to go. She asked to go to Disney. She played- she could not take a nap. She had some juice- and then was ready to eat real food. It is after 8pm now- and she slept for all of 10 minutes since she has been home.
My Mom calls Goose the "spicy one" - but Moose is as bull headed as they come. She will take the chewable Tylenol- but when it comes time for the eye drops- it has taken 3 of us to do it.
She is so polite- "No Thank you- I am not doing that" but she means it and we have to bribe, cajole, and force the her to let us do the drops.
Prayers have been answered-

She is good now- and getting ready to go to bed- we will see what tomorrow brings.

No Thank you- I don't want to do that

2009-11-13T05:27:00.002-05:00

Moose is going in for surgery on her eyes today. She has Amblyopia, or "lazy eye" - We noticed this back in the spring- in pictures. We took her to Dr. Ray for her eye exam- and her vision was good- so he suggested we go see "Dr. Bean" and told us what the treatment would be- but that ultimately it would be surgery. Dr. Bean (so named by Moose) told us the same thing.

We started patching and the Moose was great- she was a pirate princess- she had a patch and tiara. (even took the tiaras into school at first) She was happy to have the starring role as pirate princess- and never complained about wearing it. We did this 5-6 days a week. Her vision improved to perfect- but the eyes still deviated- so we scheduled the surgery.

We have been talking to Moose about her upcoming appointment with Dr. Bean and her only response has been "No Thank you- I don't want to do that" - she used her good manners- wish it were that easy.

Keep us in your prayers today- her surgery is schedule this morning at 7:45.

2009-11-11T05:54:00.003-05:00

Today in Veteran's Day. A day to remember and honor those who have served- and those who continue to serve in the Armed Forces. It is due to their service and sacrifice that America continues to be free.

Only 2% know the Joy of Adoption

2009-11-09T22:29:00.005-05:00

Today is National Orphan Sunday. Please pray for the 147 million orphans in the world who are waiting for their forever families. Also pray for the families considering adoption. Over one third of Americans seriously consider adoption, but only 2% actually adopt. Every orphan needs a forever family. We are thankful for two little girls from China- who stole are hearts and completed our family!

That was my status on Facebook yesterday. It is such a basic statement and so sad - that there are 147 million orphans in the world. That is 147 million children that don't have a Mommy and Daddy, 147 million children that don't have someone to hug them when they are sad, rejoice when they do it right, and teach them. That is 147 million kids with no one to love them or to tuck them in at night.

It is sad that countries close down their programs, slow their programs down to a crawl, or have programs that are riddled with corruption.

The saddest part to me is that over 1/3 of Americans consider adoption and only 2% actually adopt. I wonder why the others don't adopt. Do they have questions that no one answered? Do they have have concerns that no one addressed. Where they given false information or talked out of it by "well meaning" friends or relatives.

Someone commented on my FB page- that they considered it- but thought it was "to complicated". I totally get the feeling. When you look at what you have to do- it does seem complicated.

Someone else told me they were going to wait until things looked more stable. I get that as well- but when we adopted Goose- I had just been laid off- and there was no job in sight. We went on blind faith that God would provide us with the money we needed to survive until a job came through.

One person told me- "you just don't know what your going to get"- true- you don't know. You have no idea how much joy and happiness you are going to get. You have no idea how much your heart is going to fill with love for a child.

I know someone who dropped out of their China adoption- "there was no end to the wait". There was never a time that I could back out- our wait was not as long- and I can't imagine how hard it is.

A former friend told me that she did not understand why I would adopt from China - when there are so many children here that need a home. I think all children deserve a home- and I don't care where they are from. My daughters just happen to be Chinese. I say former friend because since we made the decision to adopt from China- she does not talk to me. Her loss- I have the Moose and the Goose- and I have better friends.

Someone else said to my Mom- "you mean their going back for another one- doesn't she have enough"- Don't know what she was thinking-

I wonder if there is more that I could be doing to promote adoption- if there is more that I could do to support the families considering adoption. I would like to be available to answer questions, de-bunk the myths, and support families during the wait.

There should be an adoption hot line - a 1-800 number that families considering adoption could call to get the right answers to their questions.

There are 147 million orphans in the world. I know two- that are home with their Mommy and Daddy- two little Chinese girls who stole our hearts and completed our family.

Foster Care

2009-11-08T00:35:00.002-05:00

National Adoption Month brings the spotlight on foster care and adoption. There is a huge need for foster parents in the United States.
I loved being a foster parent. It is the most emotionally rewarding and draining thing I have ever done. There is no financial incentive to being a foster parent. What our state pays barely covers the essentials. The reward is knowing that you are making the difference in the life of a child. Knowing- that even if it is for a short time- you are giving that child love, safety and stability.
It is amazing to watch a child that would not go to sleep without the lights on- learn to sleep with a night light. To watch a child who was afraid to spill water- spill the water and not hide. To watch a child that comes to you shy and withdrawn- make friends and be a chatter box.
It is not easy - but needed. It is not a money making job- but the rewards are priceless.
Look into your hearts- and see if fostering is something you can do.

Time and M&M's

2009-11-07T23:57:00.005-05:00

Moose was 10 months old when we adopted her. We were 11 other families- almost all of us adopting little girls around the same age. Moose never cried. She was very solemn- and wide eyed. She looked around and her little fingers crossed and uncrossed a thousand times. When we got back to the hotel room she was intent on seeing it all. We had joked with the Ogre- that his new sister would stick her fingers in ears, nose and mouth and pull his hair. She did just that- crawled all over him, poked him in the eye and would smile just for him. She loved to ride in her stroller and look around. She disliked the carriers- and I had three different kinds. When she was tired she would close her eyes and go to sleep. We bought a stroller that would recline so that she could lay down. She was easy going and ready to go. She was bonding well with all of us - and continues to be an easy child today.

Goose was 22 months old when we adopted her. She is a little spicy. We were the only family that went to Hunan from our agency. We walked in the government building- and Goose was sitting with her Nanny. They tried to hand her to me and she started crying and screaming. She cried and cried. Nothing made her happy- not her back pack, the toy phone, the cookies- Nothing. I only imagined what the Nanny and director were thinking.

We went back to the hotel- and I thought that she might like the car ride - no- not so much. She cried non- stop for hours. Once in the hotel room- it continued. She stood at the window and cried - what sounded to be "bye bye" or baba. It went on and on. I knew it could happen and even somewhat expected it to happen- but nothing can prepare you for that depth of mourning. She would not let me near her- she finally fell asleep and I went downstairs to bring back dinner- and our guide came up to do paperwork. She woke up- ate some goldfish crackers- and started crying again- for several more hours. She fell asleep on the floor next to the window. I was afraid of moving her for fear that she would wake up and start crying again. ( I did move her to her bed)

The next morning she jerked herself awake - took one look at me and started crying again. She stopped long enough to eat breakfast downstairs, but when our guide picked up to go do the paperwork- the crying started again.

We went back into the lobby (in her mind the scene of the crime) and her Nanny and the director of the orphanage were there. You could see the pain on the Nanny's face and in her eyes -she was losing a child she loved and cared for- and it was very obvious to me that she wanted to see Goose- and that Goose wanted to see her. I put the Goose down and she ran over to the Nanny. The director tried to stop the Nanny from picking her up- and I asked my guide to tell him it was alright. The Nanny, Jim, Goose and I took some pictures, and we talked to the Nanny and to Goose for a few minutes.

When we were ready to go in and start our paperwork- the Goose started crying- but not as hard or as loud. Each room we went into- the crying was a little less. I know that the Goose did not know what was going on in each room- but she grew to accept us ( or at least Jim) a little more.

From then on- she was Daddy's girl. She wanted nothing to do with Mommy. I would give her M&M's- one at time- and she would let me get her dressed and bring her food. I could not hold her and she really did not want to talk to me. My Mom even commented that we had lots of pictures of Jim and Goose- but not any of me with Goose. If I was pushing the stroller- she had to see where Jim was- if Jim was pushing the stroller and she could see me- she would whip that head around to make sure Jim was there.

Our last night in Hunan- we took turns getting a foot massage- Jim left the restaurant and I took Goose up to the hotel room- she cried the entire time he was gone- however- when he came back and I went to get mine- she also cried while I was gone.

At the end of two weeks- I could hold her and she was OK if I talked to her- it was a slow acceptance of Mommy. Now- you would never know that she used to cry if I picked her up.

People always talk about the great adoption stories- all smiles and giggles. The truth is- they are not all like that. Some babies cry- some shut down - and some do fine. You have to be prepared (as much as you can be)for whatever reaction you are going to get. It is healthy for a child to mourn the loss of her nanny or foster family -it means they bonded and know how to love. It doesn't make it easy on you- but Goose grieved and now she loves.

It may take time (and M&M's)

Adding a Goose

2009-11-06T22:24:00.000-05:00

Jan 2009

First icecream with her sister

first bath in America (she had to wonder if she would ever take one in a tub)

The first time we saw her

Referral phot

I was in China- standing on the Great Wall-we had not met the Moose yet- and knew that I wanted to bring my Empress home- and give her a sister. My husband was not as convinced that it needed to happen quite that fast.

We brought the Moose home from China and settled into life. Trips to Disney, going back to work, school, and watching our children grow up. We had a plan, back to school for me, get my RN license, then go back and adopt again. God and CCAA had other plans for our family. We had joined a Yahoo group for people who are adopting from China- and for families who were wanting to adopt a waiting child. (no not all children are waiting - some are matched to parents by CCAA, some are on lists sent to agencies) We knew that our second adoption would be a waiting child- a child considered "special needs" by the CCAA. It was the path that we had chosen- the one where we got Goose at the end.

One of the list members- Donna- was advocating for 3 or 4 children on an agency list. Goose was one of those children. My Mom requested the information from her- forwarded it to me, and I called the agency- I emailed the coordinator and then called her. She sent the information to me- and asked if we were interested in adopting "maria rose" We said "YES!!!!!)

I had to fax her paperwork to our doctor's office and they reviewed it- told us she was healthy. She was already our daughter- we just needed the CCAA to give us the OK!.

We wrote our Letter of Intent- and mailed it within days of seeing the Goose's picture. I started looking for information. I found a Yahoo group for her orphanage and joined. I looked through pictures that were in files- and found 3 pictures of the Goose in China. It was such an unexpected gift. We got our approval from CCAA to adopt the Goose. The paper chase was on.

This time I did all of the paperwork myself. I collected, notarized, certified and sent to the embassy for authentication. We sent the Goose a care package via Red Thread China- and were thrilled when we got updated pictures and information.

Our dossier went to China 3 weeks before Jim's 55th birthday and was logged in the day it was received. The wait started over. This time we were not waiting for a match (where the CCAA matches your dossier to a child) this time we were waiting for our LOA or letter of acceptance. It came in December. We were so excited- and when we got our consulate date (they swear you in, you get VISA to bring her home) we made our travel plans.

It was a go- we were leaving in January 2008 to get her.

Ladybug Festival

2009-11-05T22:16:00.003-05:00

Ni Hao Kai Lan has an episode where they are going to the Ladybug Festival- and this was on this morning. I had debated taking them to the fair- (our county fair is here) and asked the girls if they wanted to go to the Ladybug Festival tonight with Aunt Jen and Haley. The response was an overwhelming yes- so off we went.

The "Little's" are not tall enough to go on the big rides- but they did go on the cool kiddie rides. They went on the Teacups with their cousin Haley- and the Caterpillar (all by themselves). They also went on the Dragon Express - a little roller coaster that required one the big people to ride with them. All of us went on the Ferris Wheel- and the girls had a great time calling down to the passersby- "Hi peoples"

We went for a fair dinner- of hot dogs, bbq, and french fries. We had the delicacy that only a fair can produce- deep fried oreos. (I missed the Twinkies- but I am going to try one)

We ended the night with a stroll through the animals- ducks, chickens, bunnies, sheep, pigs and goats. There was a little guy with a monkey in a dress- that would shake your hand and give you a kiss for a dollar. Moose was all about doing that- took the dollar and walked right up to the monkey. Goose was not getting anywhere near the monkey. The petting zoo (not a lot of petting) had cows, horses, and goats. What the girls wanted to pet- and we had a hard time convincing them they couldn't) was the Tigers- beautiful white tigers and the orange and black tigers.

Two very tired little girls walked back to the car- already asking when we could come back to the festival.

Two little girls that are sleeping now- dreaming of tigers and fair rides.

Adopting the Moose

2009-11-04T19:16:00.004-05:00

Home 3 years

Home 2 years

Home 1 year

Referral photo

Our road to adoption started a long time ago. I always wanted 6 kids- and then I had the Ogre. Six sounded crazy and I liked having one. Around the time the Ogre turned 5 years- I thought that I might like to have another child- I really wanted a little girl. I never thought about giving birth to another child- I knew that I wanted to adopt.

Shortly after Christmas I got on the computer and started looking up adoption- I called the agency that we fostered with and asked them about private adoption, I called some attorney offices and was amazed at the information that we heard. I never thought that international adoption was possible- but I looked into it. The information was a bit overwhelming. I requested information from every agency I could find. The only decision to make was what country and what agency. We picked China- that choice was easy. The agency was tough. Everyone I talked to was nice, all had answers, and all seemed ready to help. It was a lot of money and I felt like I was choosing an OB (which I changed 3x).

There was an article in the local paper- about a local agency. We called and spoke to Martha. I knew- based on one conversation- that Martha was going to help me get my daughter.

I filled out the application and my Mom and I drove to the agency and dropped it off the next day. Not one to let grass grow- My Mom took me out - I had a fever, it was cold and rainy, and I was sick, but we had paperwork to collect and collect we did. Birth certificates, marriage license, calls to other states to get Jim's information. We did back ground checks- local and state, we were fingerprinted, and finally we had our home study. All of that paperwork was collected in a tidy little pile and handed over to Martha. Than it all went to the facilitator in California and then in May 2005 our paper work was logged into the CCAA and our wait began.

I joined groups for adoption- one for our agency, one for adoptive parents, and the most wonderful, a group for all of the other families that were logged in May 2005. I found a group of local families in our Mei Dreamers group- we met for lunch and dinner- a great support to each other as our wait went from 6 months to 1 year. Four years later I am still in contact with some of these families- People that I consider close friends.

At the beginning of March 2006 -grp 110 (our agency grp number) received our first call- this call let us know that we should expect referrals any day and Visa information- "the call" would not come for 3 more weeks.

On March 27, 2006 - I took the Ogre to his TKD class- I had my cell phone (fully charged)- and still managed to miss "the call". As soon as I got home I was able to get in touch with the agency and it was just like having a baby.

Our Moose was 13.5 lbs, 24" long - and from a seaside city in China. We were thrilled beyond words- and our journey was just beginning.